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Phcj123 (original poster member #71603) posted at 5:45 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
Argh I just saw on instagram that my ex’s new girlfriend was stalking my Instagram stories! He left me 2 months ago for her. I have a 1 year old and that’s all I post. Why is she stalking me !!? Should I tell my ex or not bother ? So strange.
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 5:47 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
Can't you make it private? Or block her?
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
Phcj123 (original poster member #71603) posted at 6:31 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
TX1995, not sure. Gotta check privacy options. But kinda like that she’s stalking. Maybe it will give her some
Guilt what she did to my precious baby.
MamaDragon ( member #63791) posted at 6:45 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
I would gather my evidence and watch.
Course, I'd also be tempted to post something about karma, and what goes around comes around!
She is probably trying to gather enough info so that she can keep your ex on the hook - I'd be hard pressed to not go see a lawyer about custody arrangements and having it in writing that she can't be around your child until their relationship has been established for a while.
BS - 40 something at A time, over 50 now
WS - him, younger than me
Reconciled
Phcj123 (original poster member #71603) posted at 6:53 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
MamaDragon, haha I totally should. Or address her personally in the story lol. What do you mean gather info to keep him on hook ? I told him I don’t want her around but I’m pretty sure he already introduced him. The way he said “but he’s gonna
Meet random people like my friends all the time”. Argh.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:12 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
I'd be hard pressed to not find a meme about - Divorcing because I don't like my husbands girlfriend, and than follow that with pictures of ogres, and trolls maybe photoshop a picture of him w/ a an ogre, and tag her in it.
I would have a hard time resisting. Good thing FB was still young in the my Post Dday world.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 8:17 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
Maybe it will give her some
Guilt what she did to my precious baby.
Sadly, no. She wants to see what you're up to. And she knows deep down that if he'll cheat with her, he will cheat on her (and she's thinking it will be with you).
I like some of the meme ideas! 
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
Phcj123 (original poster member #71603) posted at 8:35 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
Lalagirl, mmm I wonder. He wants nothing to do with me so she should have no worry there lol. Already brought up divorce and everything. But good I hope she does feel that way. She did an awful thing and I hope she lives w trust issues and guilt while she’s with him!!
OptionedOut ( member #69105) posted at 8:48 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
Wow. She's clearly uncomfortable knowing she has a cheater on her hands.
She won the turd fair and square. She's the proud owner of a cheater! She can't trust him, this is clear or she wouldn't be stalking you. He's probably cheating and she thinks it's with you.
Now, you could block her or set her on a path. Vague things that she'll take wrong. She'll light into him and show her true psycho self. He'll dump her for the next flavor of kibble.
Phcj123 (original poster member #71603) posted at 8:59 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
OptionedOut, great idea! Hmm what could I post ?? Trying to think of ideas now !
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 9:04 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
Yes this happened right after we separated webcam girl stalked me on my Facebook. She laughed at a picture I posted of my daughter’s homemade cupcakes. This webcam girl looks like a child herself maybe 20? Anyways stalking the ex certainly looked childish from my end. At first I blocked then I thought nah let her knock herself out stalking my wall
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fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
deephurt ( member #48243) posted at 9:17 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
I think I’d post some stuff that gives her suspicion that he is cheating with you already lol. Just something to make her worry.
me-BW
him-WH
so far successfully in R
OptionedOut ( member #69105) posted at 9:30 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
Buy some flowers. Post "I love getting flowers!" Hey, you bought them yourself. But she won't know that.
If you happen to know he was away from her for an evening, the next day, I'd post a pic of yourself looking naughty and happy. Title it "Ladies, you know the look. Wink wink!" For all anyone knows it's because you indulged in a bath or dessert or a girls' night out or... whatever.
She bought into crazy. Let her have it.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 10:40 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
I would post all day and drive the OW crazy.
Stupid nonsense that she can worry about. Some ideas:
Looking forward to that special day (that will make her lose it)!
My child looks just like his dad today wearing.......
Put some karma quotes out there. That will make her upset.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
Doesitstop11 ( member #49432) posted at 11:25 PM on Tuesday, November 5th, 2019
I would post something like, "I love when an ex comes crawling back... " or "Grass is always greener, so I have been told." She
Phcj123 (original poster member #71603) posted at 1:07 AM on Wednesday, November 6th, 2019
OptionedOut, hahaa I’m not the type to post selfies hmm. I do have two work outings this week so will have to post something with that. Maybe something outside restaurant to make it look like a date night.
Phcj123 (original poster member #71603) posted at 1:09 AM on Wednesday, November 6th, 2019
The1stWife, hahaa I should. Those are good. Gotta think of some more.
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