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SandAway ( member #37775) posted at 1:46 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
fWW
BH Tred
M 19yrs
DDay Nov. 2011
Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people
BrokenheartedWif ( member #40955) posted at 5:13 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
This was a very good post. Plan to share it with my WH.
Thank you
He claims he loved me the whole time of his LTA. I'm not sure I'll survive his kind of love. Whorena The Cumdumpster pretended to be my friend the entire time as well. I'll take an enemy any day of the week.
Matilda23 ( member #42807) posted at 5:43 AM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014
Bump - just a reminder for myself.
WGF - 24
BBF - MercilesslyNuked, 30
DDay 1 - 1/6/14
DDay 2 - 1/23/14
I Am Strong! I Am Beautiful! I Am Smart! I Am Worthy!
Prayingforhope ( member #41801) posted at 8:22 AM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily
Trying2LoveAgain ( member #43024) posted at 7:31 PM on Thursday, May 22nd, 2014
Great! I really love this! I'm going to share this with my H. Thanks so much for sharing! 
Me:BS
Him:FWH
2 DS:2 D Grandchildren
"Life is a journey, travel with Care "...Me 🙈🙉🙊"Life is not a dress rehearsal, make the ONE you have count"....Me
Sparkle0504 ( member #40379) posted at 9:10 PM on Sunday, May 25th, 2014
Bump
Me 52 (BS) Him 60 (EXSAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated.
Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)
Matilda23 ( member #42807) posted at 5:46 AM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
WGF - 24
BBF - MercilesslyNuked, 30
DDay 1 - 1/6/14
DDay 2 - 1/23/14
I Am Strong! I Am Beautiful! I Am Smart! I Am Worthy!
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 3:16 PM on Wednesday, September 3rd, 2014
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 5:22 AM on Saturday, September 20th, 2014
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
losthope13 ( member #44626) posted at 2:57 PM on Sunday, September 21st, 2014
BS here. This was great. It does put everything inn perspective. Thank you.
Still working on me with tears in my eyes.
Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 1:41 AM on Thursday, November 13th, 2014
Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
pizzalover ( member #38336) posted at 2:21 PM on Thursday, November 13th, 2014
Wow! This was fantastic! Thanks for writing this.
Trying to rebuild each day
Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats
Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09
sparrow74 ( member #44661) posted at 4:54 PM on Thursday, November 13th, 2014
that was helpful
thank you.
Me: WW EA 8 months/PA 2 years
Him: BH
Married: 11 years
2 children: 6 and 10
PenitentMan ( member #43174) posted at 8:35 PM on Friday, November 21st, 2014
Bumping for IslandA
Me: FWH (39)
Her: BW (34)
DDay 1: March 2013 (EA/PA that *I* rugswept)
DDay 2: April 2014 (PA with double betrayal. OW was wife's friend)
Married: Since 2001
PenitentMan ( member #43174) posted at 7:23 PM on Tuesday, November 25th, 2014
Me: FWH (39)
Her: BW (34)
DDay 1: March 2013 (EA/PA that *I* rugswept)
DDay 2: April 2014 (PA with double betrayal. OW was wife's friend)
Married: Since 2001
intheblinkofaney ( member #45537) posted at 12:25 AM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2014
You and me, we made a vow
For better or for worse
I can't believe you let me down
But the proof is in the way it hurts
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10-12-14 D-Day
3-24-15 Giving R a chance
Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 9:43 PM on Tuesday, December 9th, 2014
Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
singingtheblues ( new member #45085) posted at 1:50 AM on Wednesday, December 10th, 2014
Bump indeed.. my BS sent me this very early after DD2 and it spoke to me like it does to all WS's..
Back to bailing....
Me: WS, 45.
Wife: BS, 44.
Married 11 years
DD1: 10/4/12 (admitted EA, lied about PA).
DD2: 8/18/14 (PA discovered).
2 children: 10 (boy) 7 (girl)
CountessJax ( new member #46955) posted at 7:43 PM on Thursday, March 12th, 2015
Bumping this, what a great post!!
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 1:20 PM on Monday, April 6th, 2015
Thanks sorrowfulmate for sharing this link in one of your posts. #5 is what is keeping ME going. My FWH assures me repeatedly that he is going nowhere...that WE will make it...there is NO DOUBT in his words or actions.
Thank YOU wincings_sparkle for this post...I will show this to my FWH tonight .
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
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