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ShutterHappy ( member #64318) posted at 3:59 AM on Friday, February 18th, 2022
I think he, for sure, could be in major trouble at his work and maybe my wife too. It’s the least they deserve.
Agreed, but since you are divorcing her, it might not be in your best interest.
Me: BH
Divorced, remarried.
I plan on living forever. So far so good
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 6:41 PM on Friday, February 18th, 2022
With a short marriage and no children of the marriage, I think there is minimal risk to the original poster to out them to their employer.
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 8:19 PM on Friday, February 18th, 2022
Yes,please inform their employer. If only for the sheer fact, that, we know darn well they weren't using rooms that hadn't already been cleaned. No, they were going into rooms that the housekeeper had already cleaned, using clean beds/sheets, then remaking the beds when they were done. Think of all the poor customers who unknowingly slept on their fluids.
Please out them immediately.
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But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
Buffer ( member #71664) posted at 1:43 AM on Saturday, February 19th, 2022
Strength to you but as some have stated ‘out them both to their employer.’ There is a sexual harassment suit there as he was her immediate supervisor.
One day at a time.
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brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 3:19 AM on Sunday, February 27th, 2022
I hope you have gotten some much needed head space to think everything through.
Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
Stevesn ( member #58312) posted at 11:44 AM on Sunday, February 27th, 2022
Yes. How are you doing. What are your interactions these days with your wife.
Have you found a therapist to work with? A trauma specialist for support?
Take care.
fBBF. Just before proposing, broke it off after her 2nd confirmed PA in 2 yrs. 9 mo later I met the wonderful woman I have spent the next 30 years with.
Sharkman ( member #56818) posted at 7:26 PM on Sunday, February 27th, 2022
The bro move about outing him at work is to check with the other betrayed spouse first. It’s the right thing to do but she’s been an ally this far and you should give her some time in order to maximize what she can get out of him in the divorce.
Tempocontour ( member #65971) posted at 11:25 PM on Sunday, February 27th, 2022
It's been a few days, I hope you are doing ok.
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