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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 12:43 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
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Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 12:44 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
ka-mai
*************
Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 12:49 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Aren't moon pies over a fire just S'mores?
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 12:57 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Aren't moon pies over a fire just S'mores?
GASP!
this is how many a banned members thought. redeem gahurts, redeem! you're not going along with the dogma of si!!!
uh oh, too late....
ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 1:00 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 1:01 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Late to the party--and no, I don't want a moon pie--but reading most of those comments (those, not these) made me feel dirty. Ewwww.
I'm so sorry DS; what a mishigas 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
DefiledRage ( member #39292) posted at 1:02 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs
Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 1:07 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Y'all are too much!!
a really country way of saying FIRE!
Ahhhhhh... thank you for clarifying that! I'm a Carolina Girl currently living around more cows than people, but I still didn't get it. Not sure what that says about me! 
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 1:09 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Oh NO! I didn;t mean to cross the line.
I'm sorry!
So sorry!
How many goats to I need to sacrifice to make amends?
(PSST - BBQ in Georgia after this dies down) 
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
dadof4 ( member #25534) posted at 1:11 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
I could only get about 5 pages in. The comments in my view reflect what society thinks infidelity. Lately I have been spending most of my time in the Betrayed Men's thread section because its pretty safe. It struck home when DS commented about the difference between betrayed men and betrayed women. The comments bear that out. Society makes us out to be doormats and pathetic. The Menz thread is the only place where we have a true brotherhood that isn't lying to our face. The whole thing adds insult to injury which is why I only got 5 pages in.
Me 52(BH)
Her 46 (FWW)
Kids-25,23,18,16
Married 25 years.
D-Day Sept 12 2009
LTA=4 years
Reconciling.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 1:14 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
I had to stop reading the comments, too. Direct personal attacks that were mean spirited and baseless. They were making me sick.
I felt proud of those of us strong enough to fight back against some of the meanness and ignorance on behalf of SI.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
SuperDuperWonderboy ( member #34716) posted at 1:16 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
I read all the comments. Just internet trolls or people who have no clue what they are talking about. It reminds me of why I don't read comments on articles. But, in retrospect, those people have made my afternoon quite entertaining.
My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.
SuperDuperWonderboy ( member #34716) posted at 1:17 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 1:18 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Was brave of you to go there DS.
Holding yourself out to public scrutiny - knowing in advance I bet - that it would generate such a reaction.
Very brave.
Who among us, who among the o-so-informed hp readers and popular posters could do this?
Not many. That's why you guys are rare. Why don't people do this?
Because it's hard.
Maybe at some future date, this is so sad to imagine but I bet it's true....some anonymous someone will come crawling in here needing mojo, you know?
Just like me.
Clarrissa ( member #21886) posted at 1:33 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
I had the thought while reading most of the comments that few, if any, would have the strength to reconcile if they were betrayed. After all, they think it's weak to fight for the M, to give that second chance. Well I, for one, will be eternally grateful my H was "weak".
They seem to think that if the WS is immediately kicked to the curb the BS will be just fine. Which just goes to prove how utterly clueless they are. If they *are* just fine afterward then they weren't that invested in the relationship, right?
BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51
All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 1:35 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Maybe at some future date, this is so sad to imagine but I bet it's true....some anonymous someone will come crawling in here needing mojo, you know?
Just like me.
Damn JJ...you fill my heart brother. 
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
DefiledRage ( member #39292) posted at 1:35 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
If they *are* just fine afterward then they weren't that invested in the relationship
^^^^^ Ding,Ding,Ding!
M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs
Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 1:35 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
I refuse to read the comments, it will just piss me off. Walk a mile in my shoes...
I am very thankful for this website. I have "met" amazing people, I have support and the occasional 2x4 when I need it, and I have survived hell on earth.
Thank you for everything you guys do!!
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 1:40 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
SI can market its own printer, the INKSLAYER 9000
Honestly the gas on that thing is probably cheaper than the fucking ink cartridges.
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 1:48 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
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