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Yes, it was with my college boyfriend, right before I turned 20. The sex was kind of lousy (we were both virgins) but he was a nice guy and I look back on that relationship fondly.

Yes, remember it clearly. WH was my first.

Yes, I remember everything about it. It was with my first H, we had just gotten engaged. I should have waited much longer---I was 18 but nowhere near mentally or emotionally mature enough. But yes...I remember date, place, how it felt, time of day even---everything.

Yes. And I am damned old. I remember the first time. And at the very least the first time I was with every girl friend I ever had. I also remember each time something *new* was tried. With every girl friend (including me WW) I remember the first time we met - first convo - first date (where we went and what we did).

This is why I dont buy into WS *forgetting* stuff like this.

(((shattered123)))

what an interesting topic. Made me think...about my H saying he doesn't remember that much about about the A because it was so long ago (less than 3 years). I WAS the only person he'd ever had sex with until the A. Truly devastating to me. Yes, I remember the first time and the place and the month that I lost my virginity 40 years ago. 17 yrs old and dumb. I regret it, but don't really think about it.

I remember my first time. I was 18, just graduated HS, just gotten my first apartment.

He was literally twice my age, married (though I didn't know it at the time) and in the Air Force.

I don't remember the exact date, only the time of year.

I was less than scared but more than nervous and I thought I was one of very, very few 18 year old virgins.

[This message edited by Clarrissa at 5:37 PM, September 7th (Tuesday)]

Yes...I was alone

First time was with WxBF. I don't really remember a whole lot about it. It was right after my 18th birthday. I remember where and the way he looked at me so lovingly.

As far as I am concerned now, it's just another awful memory in this relationship now.

Relief....That's hysterical...unless you're not joking, then sorry, it's sad

Oh, and yes, I remember it well all these years later!

Yes...I remember every detail. I waited until I had found the "right" one. Nearly 3 years into the relationship I found out that he was married and was still with his wife. I had absolutely no clue. We were together all the time, went to his house quite often, I met his kids and we did things with them often, we attended work and friend functions together. Not one person had the guts to tell me that he was married.

Yes, I remember! The details are fuzzy, but I definitely remember who, where, when, the circumstances around it, even the song that was playing on the radio for 3 of those 5 minutes.

@ Relief

I remember the person, the place, the year (not the date), and almost ZERO details.

My "second" was my XWH and I barely remember anything about our first time.

eta: I'm so sorry shattered123.

[This message edited by mom of 2 at 7:01 PM, September 7th (Tuesday)]

((((((shattered123))))))

I'm sorry.

Yes, with STBXH. I was 20 years old and soooo embarrassed to tell I was a virgin. Sometimes I wonder if he even remembers that. Doesn't matter now though, does it?

Yes, even though there was a LOT of alcohol involved, I remember everything about it.

Yup. I was 18, and in college. I remember the guy (serious boyfriend), the room, the fact that it didn't last that long (LOL), and that afterwards I said "is that it?"

He didn't think that was very funny.

As with another person?

@ Bigger

June 14th, 1990. End of the school year bonfire. I was 16. My son was conceived that night. (so much for the old wives tale about not being able to get pregnant your first time!)

Yep. I remember person, place, date and most details.