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So what is tiny, teenie, below? 3 or 4 inches?

What is average, normal 5 or 6 inches?

Above average? 7 or 8 inches?

yep, that sounds about right...at least in my limited experience...

I agree... that sounds about right to me, too.

And even though I was just hating on ex-asshat, I really don't think size matters as a rule... it has more to do with the relationship and the connection between the participants.

The nicest looking (and working) penis I have ever seen was not the largest one I've known. It was nice, really nice in many ways. And the one I've known that was probably large was not attractive at all. And just kind of blah. Kind of like breasts, I guess. The biggest ones aren't necessary the best looking just because they're big. I'm very happy to have my smaller breasts in life that look exactly as they have when I was 20 and they go with my body type. I would look ridiculous with huge breasts, just not me.

There is so much more to a penis than its size. I won't get into it on here but many ways to enjoy a penis that is less than large.

Wow I just have to answer. I have seen and felt alot and unless they are really small (size of a finger )then it doesn't matter. It really is the man and foreplay.

We women need to learn to love our bodies and so do the men, when you relax and enjoy it OH BOY!!

So what is tiny, teenie, below? 3 or 4 inches?

What is average, normal 5 or 6 inches?

Above average? 7 or 8 inches?

These numbers look correct to me, but I think girth needs to be factored in as well.

So NOT a menz, but as a woman who enjoys sex (but never got it in the marriage) I do not worry about size unless we are talking hanging down to his knees, for me it is how the man uses what he has that counts. I more prefer width then length. I would love to have sex every single day with a "small" man who had ample width.

We are no different from men in that each one likes differently. I have not had any complaints with my boob job but then I haven't been with a man since I had them done (ex never touched em) But had a lot of complaints when I was an A cup and lost volume. I had the boob job for me due to losing the volume and I like em. Don't care what anyone else thinks.

But back to the topic, I love a man that know how to use what he has.

So what is tiny, teenie, below? 3 or 4 inches?

What is average, normal 5 or 6 inches?

Above average? 7 or 8 inches?

This whole topic is making me blush, but I will say that of the 4 penises I've seen (oh god oh god oh god can't believe I'm talking about this on the internet!!!! ), I have no idea what their measurements would have been - but I have my own very sophisticated measuring system. It's called "How many hands (or fingers) does it take to give him a blowjob?"

[TMI removed ]

I don't really feel I have anything else to add to this discussion, having never had vagina sex with anyone besides XH.

I'm going to go stick my head under a pillow and die of embarrassment now.

ETA: Oh, and a bigger girl here with small breasts - 36A. Never had a complaint though, and probably wouldn't be willing to stay with a guy who complained. I also don't wear padded bras, so no "false advertising" so to speak.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 6:33 PM, December 1st (Thursday)]

Yep, it's an issue for men. Because it's an issue for women.

I call him Crooked Dick, if you're curious, because it was shaped like a 7 when erect

This is called 'chordee'. It is a birth defect. My new baby grandson was just born like this and also with 'Hypospadias', in which the urethral opening is on the underside of the penis. According to the pediatric urologist, it is very easily correctable when he is around a year old.

It's not an issue for this part of menz. Never has been. Maybe just me? Quality has always trumped quantity, like: how deep in her eyes am I? Those windows to the soul, they hold me how dear?

Then the cock-lengthening spam appears in the inbox. In this cyber-world, with how much more increasing frequency?... and I think,

How much more surface-y we are driven to? Advertising works or they wouldn't do it. It's a distraction. A lie.

I thank SI, and the good and wise folks here

for helping me realize this, and this is the first time I have ever posted on a cock size thread. How many cock size threads do you think have appeared here?

In the end, it is completely irrelevant. Menz! Do not buy into this falseness.

Look into eyes. Connecting your brain to your heart makes you irresistible.

The rest is bs.

Shut your ears to the outside messages you hear (the messages, I might add, advertise that it's ok to cheat! fuck them!)

Connect with your heart, your lover's eyes and soul. The rest SHRINKS

to insignificance.

Holy TMI, Ama!

Ama... I'm speechless.

Hope and WB - you're right; lack of judgment on my part. I took out the really personal part.

ppga - the guy I dated was just an aesthetic thing. It didn't affect his performance or anything.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 6:35 PM, December 1st (Thursday)]

I think it's important to a lot of guys. Some even go as far as to get surgery to make it bigger. Sometimes, bigger isn't better. Why have 10 to 12 inches of wang when the average vagina is 4 inches deep. You're wasting 6-8 inches of penis.

Well said, jjct! Thank you.

According to Wikipedia, the AVERAGE erect penis is 5.1 to 5.9 inches. That's the average, so of course there are bigger and smaller. I've been with a wide variety of 'sizes', and they were average or above. I think if it's really small, that can pose a problem but for the average size on up? Naw, we'll make it work and have fun doing it. lol

I'm a DD cup and it's annoying most of the time. Finding clothes that fit the girls but is small enough everywhere else, is a pain in the ass.

My thoughts, as not-a-menz

I agree with 944's categories, though I also agree that girth is more "important" (though maybe 10th on the scale - way after a giving nature, a deep emotional connection, and a willingness to savor the experience, for example).

I am sorry I missed Ama's TMI. I love TMI.

And this whole topic reminds me of a joke my exH always used to tell:

Him: "Why do women not make good carpenters."

Unsuspecting victim: "Why?"

Him: "Because they've always been told 4 inches is really 6."

My god, it's like I walked into a high school here. I can't believe... Wait! What's that? It's a woman crying out for...

TRIPOD MAN! Sorry I have to go!

I've lost mine. Would somebody PLEASE help me find it?

Yep, it's an issue for men. Because it's an issue for women.

Well, maybe it's an issue for women only because it seems to be an issue for men! Like the boobage size issue is a big thing with women. I think we all need to just appreciate what we've got and do the best with it. Size? Nah. Give me a man that is totally into me anytime. THAT is the ultimate turn-on!

I do admit that I've probably sampled more than my fair share....and the only thing that really matters is the size of of a man's enthusiasm and desire to please me. Reverse ditto on the boob size....ladies, it's not what's in the cup, it's what's in your "lust".

Being self conscious is not a turn-on for your partner. Being totally into the moment, and the act is.

Revel in what the good Lord gave you, and be generous in sharing it with your lover!

Ok, I'm off my soapbox now. We all do ourselves a major disservice by comparing to others. There is no one like you. You are unique. Male or female, you are WAY more than enough! I'd blush too tell you of how many lovers I've had....and the memorable ones had nothing whatsoever to do with penis size. In fact, usually the bigger ones were not very memorable at all. I think they thought that since they had size, they didn't have to do anything else. NOT!

This post is the result of a nasty snowstorm and too much wine....be aware!