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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 11:57 PM on Monday, March 25th, 2013

wow. damn. and wow again.

YAY for unfounded finding!!

But seriously Nik, stop hogging all the drama...

(((hugs))) and all the mojo for what still hangs with you.

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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 nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 12:01 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

But seriously Nik, stop hogging all the drama...

Sorry, caregiver. I'll try to share a bit more.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 12:07 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

uh, when you put it that way..............

NEVERMIND! KEEP IT, please!!!

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 12:07 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

(((nik))) coming in a little late but sending you tons and tons of mojo and positive energy, along with lots of hugs.

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 12:34 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Here's an extra bit of mojo for you

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 12:56 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

All the mojo I have coming your way!!!!

(((NIK and family)))

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 12:59 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

VERY glad for "c"

Mojo for the rest.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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 nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 1:31 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Thank you.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 1:49 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Sending many good thoughts and mojo your direction!

(((NIK and family)))

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:12 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Belated mojo for you here, too!

And hooray for unfounded!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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leapyearbaby ( member #24902) posted at 6:05 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

A little more mojo for you...

I think you could have used the g2g!!

me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....

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 nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 3:50 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

lyb - there's no doubt I could have used it, but there was NO WAY I could go with all this going on.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:52 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

lyb - there's no doubt I could have used it, but there was NO WAY I could go with all this going on.

Well you are welcome to join us in St. Louis in May. Stop Sign Ninjas Represent!

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dameia ( member #36072) posted at 3:58 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Wow, it sounds like it has been a very trying month for you! Glad to hear about the unfounded finding, send prayers and positive thoughts your way!

Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.

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 nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 4:29 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Bring on the stop sign ninjas - they don't scare me! St. Louis is on my calendar. If things stabilize, I'll be there.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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veritas ( member #3525) posted at 4:30 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

mojo!

Actions unmask what words disguise.
Love many; trust few; and always paddle your own canoe.
When you win, you teach; when you lose, you learn.

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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:30 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Just saw this. Happy for the outcome of *C*. So sorry you are dealing with so much, especially all at once.

Much MOJO (caps makes it stronger) to you for everything left to deal with. ((((Hugs)))) to you all - except )wasband!(. Extra hugs for you to help deal with him.

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 4:32 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Continued prayers, nik & DD.

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 4:35 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

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Mojo for you.

I hope everything improves as much as C. did.

Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 4:36 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013

Sending mojo and (((hugs)))

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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