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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 10:46 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
(((Jrazz))) big hugs hon...
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 10:47 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
(((((Spazzie Razzie))))))
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 11:00 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Sending love, peace, strength - whatever you need.
And some hugs, ((((((((Jrazz)))))))
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Allornothing ( member #42354) posted at 11:07 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
(((Jrazz)))
You're always here for us, I'm glad that we can be here for you.
Sending prayers and strength.
Me- BS 44
Him- FWH 44
Married 20 years, Together 27
Kids- 24,23,16,15
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 11:09 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Thanks everyone. Vitamin exercise helps a lot. Gonna go pick up DD in a bit and that's always a boost too.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 11:13 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 11:20 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Thinking of you Jrazz. Hope your day gets better and everything turns out alright.
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 12:37 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Sending you love and strength my friend. Process it all and take care of you. We're here when you need us. 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 12:42 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
(((((Jrazz))))
You're such a wonderful woman and mom and support. Have a good night with your DD. Hugs and strength.
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 1:54 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Thanks everyone. We're an hour past promised check in call. Please keep the mojo rolling. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 2:07 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
(((Jrazz))) sending you strength
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:08 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Mojo continuing your way.
((((((((Jrazz))))))))
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Neverwudaguessed ( member #41884) posted at 2:08 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Ugh! Today must be so frustrating. I hope that Crazz confides in you what is going on for him. Hopefully this is just a minor bump in the road, but you are so strong even though you may not feel it now. We all feel it through the way that you give to us. Whatever this is, you will get through it. You have all of us supporting you. Hang in…… Maybe you will feel better once you have a heart to heart.
BW: 46 Me
WH:50
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 14 1/2 years ago for 2 or 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 15
DD 13
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:09 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
(((((Razzie))))) Sending you more love than you can imagine.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 2:10 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Praying for strength, mojo and peace ♥
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:19 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
(((Jrazz)))
Sending strength, hope, and love.
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 2:24 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Oh honey sending you so much strength and love.
((((JRazz))))
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 2:56 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
You are in my thoughts, Jrazz. Sending peaceful and serene thoughts to you. (((Jrazz)))
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 3:09 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Still sending positive mojo to you.
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 4:25 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Whereas the evening did not end great with Crazz, I did suck it up and have DD call and say goodnight to him.(Did I mention he's traveling?)I will never ever let our issues come in the way of her relationship with him, no matter what crappy decisions he makes in regards to me.
The evening DID end well in that I got to hang out with my little raison d'etre, Vrazz. She's on a lot of asthma/allergy meds so she gets a popsicle when she finishes her evening ones. (They're pedialyte pops... shhhhh don't tell her! ) She also gets to choose a cartoon to watch while she does the nebulizer. Tonight we rocked out to Jem and the Holograms.
I can't tell you all what it means to have your support. There are too many details about what happened today and I'm reeling too much to type them out. I want to have a more centered post to share and I will later.
For tonight, I have your love and my daughter's and I feel good. Thank you all.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
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