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HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 6:53 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
Before this gets moved to the Wayward Forum, let me just say what a piece of fucking shit you are. You cut your mother off, because she wanted you to go to a good school? The entitlement and the douchiness reeks to high heaven. I hope that your wife gets everything from you. I hope that your children, never speak to you again. While I think that all children should have their father in their life, when that father is toxic as you are? Nah. They don't need you. You are a piece of shit.
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
ThisIsSoLonely ( Guide #64418) posted at 7:06 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
This isn't even NPD most likely as NPD doesn't mean you are dumb - and if this was real this is poster-child dumb, just the personal identifiers alone - this is just some person who enjoys firing people up (or it could be brilliant - only if this person is trying to set up whatever person you all find who meets this guys description at Ohio State for a social media backlash/outing).
Sorry buddy - It didn't work. I just laughed at how sad your own life is.
[This message edited by ThisIsSoLonely at 1:10 PM, August 4th (Tuesday)]
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HouseOfPlane ( member #45739) posted at 7:10 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
Surely this is a troll
Get's my vote
First thing I thought of reading this is "Ma! MEATLOAF"
[This message edited by HouseOfPlane at 1:11 PM, August 4th (Tuesday)]
DDay 1986: R'd, it was hard, hard work.
“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”
― Mary Oliver
Gunnut ( member #63221) posted at 7:48 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
You made your bed. Lie in it.
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 7:50 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
I find it interesting that you had not 1 affair but 3 on your wife yet you call her the POS. You need to take a look in the mirror my friend. I also think this should be posted in Wayward.
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
J707 ( member #63778) posted at 8:26 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
2 things.
1. If this is real, you're the piece of shit, not your wife!
2. If you're a troll, same rules apply, still a piece of shit!
rugswept ( member #48084) posted at 8:28 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
Life sucks, especially when it involves having you as a husband.
You're an out of control feral man and you deserve NO faithful woman.
I suggest you take it up with escorts from here on or take it up with women of the level who love dick pics the first time you meet them on dating sites. Go to trash sites and you can find some of those.
That's your level and where you belong.
I wish you the personal worst of luck.
Good Bye.
R'd (rug swept everything) decades ago.
I'm big on R. Very happy marriage but can never forget.
Wanttobebetter ( member #72484) posted at 8:30 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 8:35 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
This isn't even NPD most likely as NPD doesn't mean you are dumb - and if this was real this is poster-child dumb, just the personal identifiers alone - this is just some person who enjoys firing people up (or it could be brilliant - only if this person is trying to set up whatever person you all find who meets this guys description at Ohio State for a social media backlash/outing).
You're right, TISL...and the fact that he/she has not been back to respond speaks volumes. They have succeeded in what they set out to do - upset traumatized people. There's a special place in hell for folks like that.
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
DoinBettr ( member #71209) posted at 8:52 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
This story seems strangely like one of the posters on the pro adultery site that has 2 D's in the name and starts with an R.
He was caught and an avid poster there.
Also, the way he speaks about being entitled to her friend after a "dead bedroom" sounds the same. That site has been a buzz with people attacking cheaters over there with Covid online time.
I apologize if it isn't and ask, why you felt she alienated the children?
Wasn't it your actions that did that damage?
A coworker, a realtor, and a doctor as APs. I wonder if you feel some jealousy to your wife and her success and this is driving some of this need to cheat and provide failure to her life.
Do you resent her for not getting let go in the past while you were?
Are you seeing an IC?
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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 9:04 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
First thing I thought of reading this is "Ma! MEATLOAF"
Hahaha 😂 wedding crashes. Great movie!
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 9:41 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Blindsided2425 ( member #75073) posted at 9:58 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
Haha Meatloaf, I was thinking the same thing.
20yrsagoBS ( member #55272) posted at 10:07 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
Your soon to be ex wife is awesome!
I’m sure she’s much happier now that she’s away from you
BW, 54 WH 53 When you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas
SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 10:34 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
BigMammaJamma ( member #65954) posted at 11:09 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
God this feels familiar. It feels like someone trying to get a reaction.
Me- born in 1984Him- born in 1979We both have 2 kids from previous marriages and we share a four year old. I might be a BS, but at this point, I don't know if I'll ever know.
Update: As of 5/8/2020, my WH confirmed I belong in this club
gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 11:59 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 1:58 AM on Wednesday, August 5th, 2020
The OP will not be returning to this thread.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
NeverTwice ( member #74421) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, August 6th, 2020
Guys,
Don't feed the troll. It never works...
"Solid boundaries discourage trespassing." - Shirley Glass
Fugari03 ( new member #74599) posted at 3:55 AM on Friday, August 7th, 2020
All I'm hearing are a bunch of excuses. You blame your wife (soon-to-be-ex I realize) for your infidelities. We all have a choice to make. YOU chose to cheat on your wife multiple times. That's all you. If your wife was so neglectful, or not giving you the attention you wanted and felt entitled to, you should've tried talking to her. Instead, you chose to work against her and betray the mother of your children. I think you should read the post you wrote. Really read it. Pretend you didn't write it. Have some empathy man. Man up and treat your wife with respect. You're the one who did something wrong. Not her. You have no idea what she was going through, and you should've tried talking to her about it. Instead, you chose to go outside of your relationship to inflate your ego and make yourself feel better. Wake up. Get some therapy. You did this to yourself.
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