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BluerThanBlue ( member #74855) posted at 6:15 PM on Monday, November 1st, 2021
In my opinion, there is no practical distinction between the wayward being in the "affair fog" or the wayward being infatuated or in love with a person.
"Affair fog" is just a semantic game to try to minimize the wayward’s feelings toward their AP and make it seem like they are suffering from a condition beyond their control, like the flu, and the BS needs to nurse them until it passes.
BW, 40s
Divorced WH in 2015; now happily remarried
I edit my comments a lot for spelling, grammar, typos, etc.
grubs ( member #77165) posted at 6:25 PM on Monday, November 1st, 2021
In my opinion, there is no practical distinction between the wayward being in the "affair fog" or the wayward being infatuated or in love with a person.
It's a combination of infatuation and the WS needing to unwind the internal reframing the WS did to allow themselves the excuse for having an affair. The term is more often one used by the BS than WS. I'd say it's valid is some cases. Not in others.
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