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woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 4:41 AM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Prayers sent. (((gma and family)))

In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

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silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 4:46 AM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

(((Nathan)))

Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 5:17 AM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

more prayers going out to him tonight.

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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uncertainone ( member #28108) posted at 7:36 AM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Oh no! Sending thoughts and prayers.

Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth

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timeforchange ( member #27454) posted at 7:48 AM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

I am so sorry GMA that it looks like cancer.

I have 2 friends with sons who are currently being treated for leukemia.

One is 2.5 years post diagnosis and the other 1 year. Both are doing really well.

Childhood Cancer is awful, unfair and sucks, but some types of Leukemia are highly treatable. With survival rates of 90%. Although of course the treatment plan over 3 years is hellish.

Please don't lose hope. I will be sending prayers up for Nathan.

IF Nathan is facing a long term critical illness his parents may find it helpful to set up a Caringbridge site.

It is a website where they can leave news about Nathan and people can leave messages of support. It saves the parents having to re-tell he story and deliver updates again and again to different people.

Sending you all hugs and prayers.

Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”

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incredulous ( member #16737) posted at 1:25 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Keeping you, Nathan, and the whole family in my prayers.

(((gma)))

me: BW, now 55;
DD now 19 (adopted by me as single mom, so XWH was "Dad")
married: June, 2005, together since July, 2002
d-day: 10/21/07;
Divorced July, 2008 and he never looked back...

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 1:37 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

(((gma & family))) Healing thoughts to you all.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 3:38 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Oh, gma. I'm so sorry.

Continued prayers for your family.

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 3:55 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

((gma & family))

Many, many prayers headed your way. I'm so sorry to read this.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 4:02 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

(((GMA)))

I'm thinking of you and Nathan today.

Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 4:08 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Ditto Timeforchange's entire post.

Praying for all of you

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:51 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Oh, honey. What a scary time this must be for all of you.

It sounds like Nathan is in a wonderful place if it does turn out to be leukemia. You and your family are surrounded by more love, support, prayers and well wishes than you could ever imagine. Hang in there. Sending you strength.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 4:57 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Hugs and prayers coming your way.

“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

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peridot ( member #18334) posted at 5:15 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Gma, I just seen this. I am so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 5:17 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Prayers for you all

((gma & family))

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 5:43 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

I was thinking leukemia after your second post.

I have been praying since you started the thread.

Prayers for everyone.

He's in good hands gma, I will continue to pray.

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

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Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 5:56 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Oh man,

I am so sorry. I ahd a cousin have that and he has been cancer free for years now.

I will pray for you and your family and mostly for little Nathan, no child should have to endure that.

BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:56 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Poor sweet baby and everyone who loves him.

I've heard a lot of good things about Lucille Packard (@Stanford.)

Will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 5:59 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

(((Gma))) Praying for good news...

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts...

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 6:15 PM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Oh gma, I just saw this.

I am praying hard...and sending SI mojo...

oh God please don't let it be cancer and if it is, let it be treatable and let Nathan get through this with his strong spirit and courage.

Sending love to you to gma - you have endured so much yet you are always there for others...please know we're here for you!

Many hugs,

Lala

2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

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