 
				    				sassylee ( member #45766)		posted at 7:53 PM on Friday, March 17th, 2017	
				My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012 
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 5:36 PM on Wednesday, April 12th, 2017	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 1:29 AM on Saturday, May 20th, 2017	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			 
				    				StillLivin ( member #40229)		posted at 6:14 AM on Tuesday, June 6th, 2017	
				"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014		
	 	 			 
				    				CharliB ( member #59007)		posted at 1:51 AM on Friday, June 9th, 2017	
			 
	Very helpful post. Thanks 
 
			 			The truth doesn't cost you anything but a lie could cost you everything		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 4:21 PM on Monday, June 19th, 2017	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777)		posted at 10:31 PM on Thursday, July 6th, 2017	
				ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity. 
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.		
	 	 			 
				    				SydPom ( new member #59247)		posted at 7:22 PM on Tuesday, July 18th, 2017	
		 			 
				    				Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119)		posted at 8:12 PM on Saturday, August 5th, 2017	
				dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again		
	 	 			 
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 2:27 AM on Monday, September 4th, 2017	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			 
				    				Jen  ( member #26584)		posted at 11:06 PM on Sunday, September 17th, 2017	
				Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 8:43 PM on Saturday, September 23rd, 2017	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 12:25 PM on Wednesday, October 18th, 2017	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			 
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 12:14 PM on Tuesday, November 14th, 2017	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 5:31 PM on Saturday, December 2nd, 2017	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				Phoenix1 ( member #38928)		posted at 1:58 AM on Monday, December 11th, 2017	
				fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 4:41 PM on Sunday, December 17th, 2017	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				BearlyBreathing ( member #55075)		posted at 8:05 AM on Thursday, December 21st, 2017	
				Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct.  :-/ **		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 6:23 PM on Tuesday, December 26th, 2017	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 6:41 PM on Tuesday, January 2nd, 2018	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.