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Western ( member #46653) posted at 2:01 AM on Friday, March 23rd, 2018
Anon.
1) Don't be chased off due to the criticism. See the criticism as constructive comments meant to improve you.
2) I know Greeneyes comments seemed harsh but the truth is that I agree with her 100%. You seem to have surrounded yourself with people you can't trust, as she pointed out. You can do better. I am going to send you a PM to ley you know how
3) Your decision to 'R' with her seems to be under the terms 'no matter what'. Wrong tact. You need to file and put the fear of God into her and control the outcome. Instead, she is controlling it. Not where you want to be
kaygem ( member #57956) posted at 5:21 AM on Sunday, March 25th, 2018
Me: BW
Him: fWH Remorseful, doing the work
Dday-3/17 (ONS's)
Used2bhappy10 ( member #59324) posted at 2:30 PM on Sunday, March 25th, 2018
Thinking good thoughts for you Anon. How are you doing?
Me: 50+
WH: 50+
M: 30+ years, 2 adult DD
DDay March 2017
Strong into R with a better than ever WH
I saw that.
Signed,
Karma
seadoug105 ( member #62312) posted at 2:49 AM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018
Anon! How are you holding up man?
burcm ( member #55812) posted at 11:42 AM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018
Divorced the XWW and remarried to a wonderful woman much higher in both quality and beauty.
pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 3:51 AM on Saturday, March 31st, 2018
Anon I hope you are well.
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
Western ( member #46653) posted at 1:12 PM on Sunday, April 1st, 2018
I think Anon has taken flight aboard Rugsweep Airlines flight 911
Sad that his last posts showed that he was ready to work on this
redsox13 ( member #43391) posted at 11:31 PM on Sunday, April 1st, 2018
Western - how exactly does your comment help the person who sought help?
The crack about rug sweeping is juvenile crap inappropriate if the goal is to held Anon.
BS - 45
fWW - 43
Simply getting better.
Western ( member #46653) posted at 1:59 AM on Monday, April 2nd, 2018
Redsox,
Look I have always respected you as a poster however, I disgaree with your comment.
The bottom line is that I have tried to show a great deal of respect to Anon.
You called the rugswepeing line 'Juvenile' but it's not, it's a fact because that's exactly where he was headed towards this.
In the end, like you, I want the best for him.
However, all of the 'I hope you come backs' 'I wish the best for yous' isn't bringing him back. Maybe he needed a break from this or maybe he is embarrassed that he can't break away from her.
I don't know but my line was not to make fun of him. My line was intended to get him back here. Even if it was out of anger at me, I don't care. I am a big boy. I can take whatever flak I get. I was just trying to get a response out of him.
In retrospect, I probably shouldn't have done it but in the end, this guy needs help and I have a gut feeling he's being overwhelmed right now
Sadly, it didn't work so I am going to back off and see if he posts again someday.
[This message edited by Western at 8:09 PM, April 1st (Sunday)]
pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 2:18 AM on Monday, April 2nd, 2018
The comparison to airline flights is hard because of how his WS conducted her A.
Anon, if you are in pain, you can be heard here. Don't bear it all alone.
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
smilethrupain ( member #55712) posted at 6:49 AM on Monday, April 2nd, 2018
I'm still 4 pages out from catching up to this thread but, Anon, I can assure that if the AP really had ED, she would have been on the first flight back and wouldn't have traveled out there so much in... ONE FUCKING year? You have your crazy goggles on. I'm sorry. I know what it's like, been there, done, that and only got an "I wore crazy goggles for six straight fucking months t-shirt".
Me BW 37
Him WH 37
14 year r/s/ 7 years married
DDAY#1 9/4/16 (My 6 year wedding anniversary)
DDAY# 2/3/4... can't remember but spanning months after first dday.
LTA/EA/PA/COW/My "good friend"
1 DS - 3.5 yo (A started when he was 1)
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