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[This message edited by Yooper at 6:45 PM, April 15th (Sunday)]

Well done! That was painful to even read. And yes, I read the entire thread.

Wishing you nothing but the best as you move forward with healing.

View your planned counseling as the afterburn that comes with the thrust out of a shitstorm.

Blue skys ahead.

I received a challenge coin from your close peers (who knows, maybe from you) and that small token to you all is one of the highlights of my professional career.

I am sorry that you are here but I am glad you found the site and took to it so quickly. This site did more than the sum of everything else to help me begin to comprehend my wife's shocking betrayal. I am in awe of your ability to take care of yourself and stand by your principles.

The most important lesson for me to learn and understand (and it did not happen fast and is still not done) is that my wife's affair had nothing to do with me. You are no less of a person and you held up your end of your bargain like a champ. I wish you well.

Well done.

Burn the ships.

You folks have been a tremendous help to a stranger among you, and I expect will continue to be so.

Edit: Folks, I took down what was here earlier. This morning it just seemed... self-aggrandizing to me. If anyone desires it, I'll PM the creed which I had posted last night. - J

[This message edited by LtCdrLost at 12:01 AM, April 17th (Tuesday)]

I can't explain it but I think this might be the most patriotic I've ever felt in my life. The fact that you do what you do for this country and that you've clearly bought into these concepts to the point that even great personal tragedy did not sway you from your path is really touching. It makes me proud to have men like you serving and confident that no enemy of ours will ever rest lightly knowing what it is they are facing.

Thank you,

Well that brought a tear to my eye!

I don't know you personally but damned if I don't feel like I do!

So very proud of you and your brothers in arms.

Thank you, Sir!

You make me proud.

Peace!

Thanks for sharing this.

The past months have certainly put all of this to the ultimate test, and you didn't just pass the test you freakin ACED it!!!

You've lived up to the creed--to the letter.

A special breed, indeed.

Earlier you said taxpayers pay good money for guys like you. You're worth every damn cent--and more.

You have my deepest respect — and gratitude. Thank you.

Your wife lost a Rolls Royce of a man because of a back-alley rat. She'll regret it for the rest of her life.

The Creed shone through in every action you have made.

In troubled times you are we can sleep in this country.

Thanks for sharing this. As I rapidly approach my eighth decade on this planet, I am so grateful and it is so reassuring to know that men and women like you still exist and are out there serving this country.

Im not sure that I am posting in the right forum or not, but my husband cheated on my via the internet. I am so devestated. My pain right now is enormous. Please, someone, tell me it gets easier. I cant even get out of bed most days. I thought this man was my soulmate and he lied to my face, continuously for months, over a year. I am just lost, sad, and want to give yp.

Im not sure that I am posting in the right forum or not, but my husband cheated on my via the internet. I am so devestated. My pain right now is enormous. Please, someone, tell me it gets easier. I cant even get out of bed most days. I thought this man was my soulmate and he lied to my face, continuously for months, over a year. I am just lost, sad, and want to give yp.

Im not sure that I am posting in the right forum or not, but my husband cheated on my via the internet. I am so devestated. My pain right now is enormous. Please, someone, tell me it gets easier. I cant even get out of bed most days. I thought this man was my soulmate and he lied to my face, continuously for months, over a year. I am just lost, sad, and want to give yp.

You're a good man.

Your STBXW is a fucking idiot!! I hope someday she truly realizes what she lost.

Kimberly you should start your own thread honey.

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