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ItsaClimb ( member #37107) posted at 4:12 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
BS 52
Together 35 yrs, M 31 years
2 daughters 30yo(married with 2 children) & 25yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later
AnnieOakley ( member #13332) posted at 4:41 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Holding you in my thoughts today.
Me= BSHim=xWH (did the work & became the man I always thought he was, but it was too late)M=23+,T=27+dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced."If you are going through hell, keep going."
Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 4:52 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
I'm praying for you and your family every day. ((((hugs))))
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:56 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Sending you strength, peace and love today.
May today bring you some smiles as you surround yourself with those that share your love for your son.
Many hugs,
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:07 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Sending you and your family peace and comfort today, phoenix.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 5:33 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
((((Phoenix))))
I will be thinking of you and holding you in my thoughts especially over the next couple of days.
stroppy_wanadoo ( member #11224) posted at 5:40 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Sending prayers for peace and every ounce of my strength to you. We will hold you as you hold your son.
(((Phoenix and Son)))
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 6:30 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
((phoenix and family))
I am thinking of you today. Praying for peace, strength and endurance for all of you today. Your beautiful words about your son continue to touch me deeply.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 6:59 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Phoenix.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 7:41 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
((((Phoenix))))
We all wish this could be a bad dream too. I know you will find the strength to make it through tomorrow; after that, let yourself rest, and mourn, and know that we are all sending you our strength if it helps hold you up at all.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 7:48 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
I hope you get through everything with a minimum of unnecessary drama. Then please get some rest for yourself. You have been a pillar of strength and now you need to make yourself a priority and try to rest and recover.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
incredulous ( member #16737) posted at 12:12 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers today. I hope celebrating your son's life with so many others who also loved him has been able to bring you a small measure of peace.
(((((Phoenix1)))))
me: BW, now 55;
DD now 19 (adopted by me as single mom, so XWH was "Dad")
married: June, 2005, together since July, 2002
d-day: 10/21/07;
Divorced July, 2008 and he never looked back...
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 1:58 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Praying that you could feel the love surrounding you today.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 2:06 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
There isn't a day that I don't think about you. Add me go the list of folks who wish we could be there in person to give you whatever support we could.
Holding you in the *******LIGHT********
SK
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 4:01 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
((phoenix))
thinking of you this morning. yesterday must have been incredibly difficult. I hope that you're surrounded by love and support today.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 4:52 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Sending prayers and hugs for today.
Just rest now. Take as much time as you need.
You have been so strong this last month. What an inspiration to all who know you IRL.
Sending strength.
eta: missing words make dumb sentences! 
[This message edited by still2suspicious at 10:53 AM, April 26th (Saturday)]
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
cantbelieve ( member #22028) posted at 5:03 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
No words can truly express what you are going through. Just know that you have lots of prayers for you and your family.
((hugs))
Me: BS (61)
Him: WS (61)
LTA 4 years with co-worker
DS(30)
DD(26)
DD(23)
Married 32 years
D-day1 5/08
D-day2 11/08
Status: 6 yrs and wondering if I'll ever be truly happy again
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 5:10 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
(((Phoenix))) the poem is beautiful. I too, stroke my son's hair. You're love for him and your family comes through in every post. My heart breaks for you and your family.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 5:49 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Sending additional hugs today, and thinking of you...
(((((Phoenix)))))
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 11:15 PM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
Failure is success if we learn from it.
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