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Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 12:18 AM on Thursday, September 4th, 2014
Here, Lola
It's been a long time for me, too, (but I'm not counting!!) and I am sick of Bob. He bores me!
Brave30 ( member #41124) posted at 2:31 AM on Thursday, September 4th, 2014
This is my first official post to say that I'm riding the bus. And, I have NO intentions of making any stops any time soon.
ETA: That drink looks delicious!
[This message edited by Brave30 at 8:31 PM, September 3rd (Wednesday)]
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:23 AM on Thursday, September 4th, 2014
Polo! I'll take one of those, Please!! 
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
annanew ( member #43693) posted at 11:01 PM on Friday, September 5th, 2014
I have been on the bus for years. And I had a baby WHILE STILL ON THE BUS!!!
Does this qualify me for some kind of prize??? (Besides the adorable baby, I mean.) I hope so!
Single mom to a sweet girl.
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 11:10 PM on Friday, September 5th, 2014
Here you go, Brave and BigH! Cheers!
Anna? How'd you do that?? 
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 6:40 AM on Saturday, September 6th, 2014
Thank you, Compartmented! Looks great. And I want to know, too, Anna?
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Softcentre ( member #39166) posted at 5:08 PM on Saturday, September 6th, 2014
Almost 1.5 years. Bob doesn't do it for me. Chocolate seems to help a little...not enough though 
Now bus questions...
What counts as stepping off the bus? Can you go down a few steps and still stay on? 
Me: BW
Him: XWH
2 Children
Finally reached indifference & looking forward to my new beginning
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 5:41 AM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
Just over two years and two months. I sort of want to get off, but only having 99 problems is something I have gotten used to.
velveteer ( member #30997) posted at 11:15 AM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
So I've been avoiding jumping on this bus long enough - heading into my ninth month so I guess the bus is now going my way.
I'm going to need a drink - is there a bar?
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 2:30 PM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
I'm going to need a drink - is there a bar?
Oh, yes. Welcome and here you go! 
This is definitely a party bus!!
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gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 8:11 PM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
I'm in serious danger of leaping, er... I mean *falling* off the bus.
Someone please talk me out of it!!
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
velveteer ( member #30997) posted at 11:16 AM on Thursday, September 11th, 2014
Party bus is very much my scene *takes drink*
thanks
Splitter ( member #43957) posted at 3:19 AM on Friday, September 12th, 2014
I notice that the overwhelming majority of posts on this thread are from women. Any reason for this?
I'm scheduled to get back on the bus in three months, unless some miracle comes my way. Historically, I've spent about 70% of my adult life riding it (for years at a time) and I hate it. When I first got together with my now XWW, I vowed to never ride again. Just seems like such a waste... But it feels inevitable. I've never managed to have sex with someone I wasn't in love with, and love doesn't come knocking very often.
Fuck you, bus.
Best wishes to those on it, please keep a seat warm for me.
Splitter ( member #43957) posted at 3:35 AM on Friday, September 12th, 2014
Oh, and if so many women ride this bus, how would a guy meet those who are interested in alighting? It'd be nice to be with a woman that understands what the bus is all about - my ex just used to harass me about it. I dunno, maybe cus she felt a bit guilty for being so, ummm, "liberal".
befuddledhubbie ( member #43990) posted at 3:58 AM on Friday, September 12th, 2014
Still shy of 6 months. 3 months since we did anything romantic, before d-day week affair went PA, i had no clue.
time before that was 2 week further back. Fully expect to have a seat on the bus. WW at OM, and I'm too honorable to start a relationship before D is final or R happens by act of God.
Not big on drinks, but do you have anything with baileys? Love milkshakes with baileys, doesn't matter what flavor it is.
BH 32 DD 7
xww- broke, divorcing POSer
Divorced April 2015
NB coming soon to a Fud near you
I like the story of the prodigal son, but he didn't screw the pigs.
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 7:11 AM on Friday, September 12th, 2014
It's been a year and half for me. The last time was right before I discovered the A and threw him out.
I'd like to get off the bus at some point, but not until I find someone worthy of stepping off the bus for. In the meantime, I will take one of those delicious bloody Mary's I saw a few posts up.
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 8:00 PM on Friday, September 12th, 2014
Thanks Compartmented!!
That drink looks delicious.
Just my kind of frothy pink concoction.
It's Friday. What the hell, right?
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
last.chance65 ( member #15989) posted at 9:00 PM on Friday, September 19th, 2014
Bartender!!! Is there any room for a new bus rider (7 months)? And, can I please request a seat towards the front because I need a smooth, non-bumpy ride. Cheers!
M 8 years, 2.5 kids
Many Ddays, Over 18 PAs, S, headed for D
Grab a plate and throw it on the ground.
~ Ok, Done
Did it break?
~ Yes
Now, say “Sorry” to it.
~ “Sorry”
Did it go back to the way it was before?
~ No
Now, do you understand?!
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 9:06 PM on Friday, September 19th, 2014
Guess I must have hit the bar before getting on the bus. All I know is I woke up, looked around and said "where the hell am I? Oh yeah, it's been 8 months. This bus has comfortable seats. This will work"
Cheers!
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
last.chance65 ( member #15989) posted at 9:44 PM on Friday, September 19th, 2014
Cheers MadeofScars! I already see I'm in great company along this ride!
M 8 years, 2.5 kids
Many Ddays, Over 18 PAs, S, headed for D
Grab a plate and throw it on the ground.
~ Ok, Done
Did it break?
~ Yes
Now, say “Sorry” to it.
~ “Sorry”
Did it go back to the way it was before?
~ No
Now, do you understand?!
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