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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 11:35 PM on Friday, July 10th, 2015
14 months and no end in site.
I will say that listending to a particular steamy section of a bodice ripper audiobook while driving AND having been on the bus long term equals nearly driving into the back of a delivery van. 
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 11:48 PM on Friday, July 10th, 2015
Just read this thread for the first time.
I hadn't really thought about it like this before! In terms of how long it has been that is. 
Technically it has been 20 months. Previously should not be counted either. So how about approximately 10 years or so!
No end in sight here either and really not in a rush.
Large glass of merlot please.
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
Riskybusiness ( member #43475) posted at 12:53 AM on Saturday, July 11th, 2015
Haha, Antlered! 
I'm very pleased to be off the bus! Best of luck to all those long term riders! I most definitely did not forsee this relationship, thought I was going to be on the bus for a good long time.
Me-42
Engaged 5/2017
Him-no longer matters
Married 22 years
Two DD-adults. DS-18, DD-14
DIVORCED
Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 1:06 AM on Saturday, July 11th, 2015
I hit three years sometime this last week. No end in sight.
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 1:12 AM on Saturday, July 11th, 2015
It was 2 years in May for me.
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 12:50 AM on Sunday, July 12th, 2015
How have I missed seeing the bus drive by? Were you guys going fast??
2 years 2 months for me. Last was with WH. Not a good experience.
This section of the bus I've stepped onto looks remarkably similar to the bus on Harry Potter - cots separated by lovely curtains, a chandelier over my spot - there's even a mini fridge and a bookshelf!
My D looks to be dragging on for another 6 months to a year, so I'm just going to settle in here.
I've got an ice cold pitcher of pink lemonade and some lovely decorated cupcakes to share!
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 1:04 AM on Sunday, July 12th, 2015
I forgot to put in my request for a destination! Can we swing by NYC? I'd like to catch a few Broadway shows.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
dotterofTheKing ( member #45223) posted at 3:30 AM on Sunday, July 12th, 2015
Haaaahaaaahaaaa! I must have been sleeping since I've been riding on this bus 11 long months and didn't even know it!!
I was BW (48), He was WH (47) at D-day
Together 27 years, married for 24
D-day was August 4, 2014
We have 3 beautiful children. (Two sons 19 and 20, one daughter 14.)
Affair with HS sweetheart.
Divorced January 26, 2016
feelinghurt10 ( member #28600) posted at 12:26 PM on Monday, July 13th, 2015
I'm jumping back on...
I was on the bus almost 5 years and stepped off for a weekend get-away with an old guy friend back in February. Well worth it, by the way. Because of schedules and 5 hour distance between us, we haven't been able to coordinate ourselves to meet up again... So I'm hopping back on....
Me- BS-51. Dday #1 4/3/2010 ; Officially divorced - 10/26/2012"No matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow." ~Maya Angelou
Guinness23 ( member #42852) posted at 2:53 PM on Friday, July 17th, 2015
I hit three years sometime this last week. No end in sight.
You and me both! 
Didn't know I was a bus rider, too!
I have a box in the basement of all things "sexy" if you know what I mean and I couldn't give a shit because it is NOTHING without feeling something for the guy and knowing (big deal for me) that he won't be spreading his petrie dish of germs in and on me. Celibacy - no sex is a no brainer when put in terms of that.
That being said, I HAVE had some dreams lately...and I DO rewind the steamy parts in movies these days 
Me 48
Divorced 2010
1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem
My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23
ChewedMeUp ( member #8008) posted at 5:19 PM on Friday, July 17th, 2015
*steps on the bus and curls up with a steamy book*
I'm not bothering with counting months because I don't want to depress myself.
BS - over 40
DivorcED, finally.
2 Kids
humboldtmom ( member #21569) posted at 7:20 PM on Friday, July 17th, 2015
Happily riding the bus with all of you. The company seems better in here anyway!
Me xBS
STBXWH - 1.5yr PA (with my sister, RIP) and now MOW#2
Together 19y Married 16y, now divorced and XWH and MOW are married
3 children: 16, 14, 7
D-Day 9/2008, 7/2015
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 2:33 AM on Saturday, July 18th, 2015
Who's driving this contraption?
It's rainy and humid here today, so I have hot cocoa for those that are a bit chilled, and iced tea for those that are too warm.
I have some hot steamed towels for anyone that needs to freshen up their face.....
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 7:14 AM on Saturday, July 18th, 2015
It's been about 5 or 6 years, well except for one pit stop a couple of years ago.
I'm ready to get off now, but no stops anywhere in sight. My seat was comfortable, the company was scintillating, but I am started to get seat sores.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
dotterofTheKing ( member #45223) posted at 6:07 AM on Tuesday, July 21st, 2015
Nekobe hahahaaaa
[/quoteWho's driving this contraption?
and Stilllivin heehee
[/quotebut I am started to get seat sores
I was BW (48), He was WH (47) at D-day
Together 27 years, married for 24
D-day was August 4, 2014
We have 3 beautiful children. (Two sons 19 and 20, one daughter 14.)
Affair with HS sweetheart.
Divorced January 26, 2016
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 3:44 AM on Sunday, August 23rd, 2015
Alright people.
This is ridiculous.
I'm going to drive for awhile unless somebody has an objection??
Since we are coming up on football season, I vote the first stop is the electronics store for a big screen tv that can be used indoor or out.
Start making plans for what our viewing venue will look like when we get it set up.
We also need to take into consideration that American Horror Story is going to start again in October.
What snacks shall we make? Any stops you'd like to make along the way? I'd kind of like to go to the zoo.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 12:35 AM on Monday, August 24th, 2015
I'm up for where ever you want to drive....
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 1:07 AM on Monday, August 24th, 2015
Can we have a separate section for fans of the pointy-ball sport that nekorb mentioned? I'm not one and would rather read, solder, or code...
[This message edited by devotedman at 7:08 PM, August 23rd, 2015 (Sunday)]
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
GiveTimeTime ( member #45868) posted at 1:08 AM on Monday, August 24th, 2015
For what it's worth, I could get off this bus any damn time I choose.... But unlike my whore fucking ex, I'm actually waiting for someone WORTHY, not the first offer that will probably charge me. I'm comfortable with myself, and I look AWESOME here. I'll wait, thanks. Keep moving down the aisle. I will let YOU know if I'm interested.
You will recognize me. My eyes are deep blue, and my head is held fucking high.
[This message edited by GiveTimeTime at 10:05 PM, August 23rd (Sunday)]
Me: 50 Him: 59Married 14 years, together 19.D-day: 3/6/14Me; loving, devoted, faithful wifeHim: lying, cheating, wh0re fu€king john6/4/15 - Divorced. Done. I wasn't kidding, asshole.
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 6:56 AM on Monday, August 24th, 2015
Well it sounds like we will need two big screens. One for football/basketball/baseball/soccer ball/golf/etc.. Maybe that's why men are so facinated by sports, they all end with a ball. Sorry, guys just joking of course. 
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
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