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"you fucking coward you don't deserve a child as awesome as Teslet."

Nope, Tes. He soooo doesn't.

What happened with Mosley?

With Mosley:

He is at stbx's apt. stbx took extra long answering door probably to stash him in a room because if Mosley would have seen me he would have come to me.

Teslet said that Mosley was chewing on the ferrets...he'll kill one of them as soon as he has a chance. He's only 18 months old...he needs to run and he needs to have companionship...he is going to get bored and destructive this next week. (And when I say destructive think chewing the walls destructive) i think stripper whore stays home and plays housewife at this point...but I highly doubt she is alpha enough to contain a bored malamute. also stbx doesn't know what food I feed them...so he's probably got massive diarrhea too.

For the moment (and until I have other stuff in place) I'm going to wait it out. He has the wrong dog...he wants lie-lie...everytime he looks at Mosley I know he's thinking about how much he wants Lie-Lie and what a bitch I am for keeping her from him. He's going to do something stupid again.

You know what's really sad about all this? (Ok, there is a lot really sad about all of this) We have a cat that stbx got before we were married...this cat is like 10 or 11 yrs old. he got her from a shelter. She was sick and he nursed her back to health. ALl through our marriage he LOVED that animal. But since he left, he hasn't said one thing about her. Not one. I thought for sure she would be gone with Mosley. Nope. She's still here. I can't figure out why he didn't take her too.

I dreamed about Mosley last night...his goofy face and big old bear head. God, I hate stbx.

Tes

Teslet said that Mosley was chewing on the ferrets.

I had a large malamute in the 90's - I'v seeing ferret treats

I have been keeping up with this thread and just hate all this for you. Could you not have brought a police officer with you to get your dog back? The other question that you might have answered elsewhere but I am unaware of is what is in writing about who owns the dogs or is getting the dogs in the settlement? I would guess if nothing is in writing, it might not be possible to charge him with theft since Mosley would be considered marital property.

I totally feel your pain, though. I have a big ole malamute. I love her to death. She'll be 10 this January and I brought her home at only 4 weeks old. I think I'd kick in someone's door to get her back if they took her.

[This message edited by debbysbaby at 6:36 AM, October 1st (Monday)]

Chewing ferrets and diarrhea?

I think your beloved pet will be home before you know it.

How long will stripper whore put up with that? I would give it 72 more hours!!!!!!

As for the cat if you have never specifically said how much you love and want the cat.... Well he won't bother. This is all about control.

Teslet will insist on his own that Mosley should come home with us. Maybe if that shithead has any little shred of a soul left he will see the pain and turmoil he is about to cause his son and let Mosley come home.

I noticed that you already picked your son up, but i wanted to say this.

Please do not put your child in the middle of this mess. If the next time you go to pick Teslet up and he pleads to take Mosley home, just tell him that Daddy has Mosley right now and that it is polite to share.

This is not your childs fight. I know that you want STBXAH (soon to be x a$$hat) to see your child's pain, but that will never happen. If he will use a dog against you then your child is next. And once this is over, he will find every way under the sun to use Teslet against you.

As TCF pointed out....he doesn't give a shit about the animals. It's purely control.

Teslet said that Mosley was chewing on the ferrets

I don't understand.

If a neighbor broke into my house, and I had proof, the police would charge him/her.

Why aren't the police charging your STBX?

He won't beat Mosley if gets bored, or has bad behavior will he?

[This message edited by momentintime at 2:04 AM, October 5th (Friday)]

(((tesla)))

This is not your childs fight. I know that you want STBXAH (soon to be x a$$hat) to see your child's pain, but that will never happen. If he will use a dog against you then your child is next. And once this is over, he will find every way under the sun to use Teslet against you.

Sigh. I know. It sucks...pisses me off so much. Teslet noticed that I have the gate that we used to take to the back door locked and now we go through the garage. He kept asking why. Finally I just told him that somebody came to the house uninvited and the locks are to keep uninvited people out. He asked today when daddy was brining Mosley back and I just said, "I don't know." And I quickly change the subject.

Mosley is marital property. (well, ok, I do hold a trump card here but I'm not ready to go into it yet) But more importantly, it's not the dog he wants. Trust me, it irritates the fuck out of him that I've "kept" what he wants from him. He will do something stupid again and I'm laying the ground work to make sure that I can press charges. I don't have exclusive use of the house...asshat never signed the temp orders and I didn't push for it because I never thought in a million years that he was the type of guy to do this. Really. Never did I think he would do this. Big mistake on my part.

Let this be a lesson to everyone else...get the temporary orders signed...don't assume your stbx is going to be a good guy.

I will get Mosley back (either he'll get tired of him, I'll get him through a court hearing, or I'll play my trump card) but I don't want to try until I have everything in place so that if stbx retaliates in crazy mode, I'm able to actually do something about it.

Honestly, he may beat Mosley if he gets frustrated (afterall, he kicked my door in out of frustration/anger/whatevever) but I have to believe that he is still in charming facade mode for his pregnant stripper whore. Probably most of his bad behavior is directed toward me and out of sight of anyone he is trying to impress.

I'm tired of being worried all the time. But I'm so thankful for everyone's suggestions, concerns and hugs. Especially the hugs.

I hope if he's mean enough to beat Mosley, that Mosley turns on him and shows him what mean is

I really hope Mosley eats a ferret.

Being a raw feeder(for those that don't know our dogs are on a raw diet-raw meats and so on) I am rooting for Mosley to follow his instinct and eat a ferret. Another part of me is hoping Mosley doesn't since there is no telling how healthy the ferrets are and it could go very bad for Mosley if the ferret isn't healthy. Also a ferret being eaten is going to fight back and poor Mosley could wind up with some serious injuries.

I do hope for Mosley's safe return sooner rather than later.

I hope that Mosley eats HIM!!

((((tesla, teslet, mosley))))

Hang in there, honey.

Hey. I am following your story and praying a lot for you and Taslet. (((hugs)))

That really infuriates me to hear that anyone would beat a dog trying to get by in strange new surroundings.

Should he do that, lets report him to ASPCA..

Let this be a lesson to everyone else...get the temporary orders signed...don't assume your stbx is going to be a good guy.

Wise words tesla. I am right here with you.

If he lays a mean hand on Mosley I'll be headed his way with a hair clipper. You get the honor of holding him down!

Stay safe hon, hugs to you and teslet.

Poor Mosley

Poor Ferrett

Ferrett's are so cute and adorable. I hope Mosley turns on douchebag and bites his ball sac off. He's such a waste of oxygen. I absolutely despise that man.