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I think of intelligence like having a lot of horsepower/torque.

TJ alert, but I've always thought of it that way also. And I liken education, wisdom and experience to the ability to drive.

Just because you have a fast care, doesn't mean you know how to make use of it. A better driver in a slower car can often outperform you.

Sorry, TJ over

You can block her on an iPhone and Android. Here is the issue with the same number, social media etc. She can get a new number and contact u that way.

Also change your password to the first letters of a sentence some number she doesn’t know and a symbol.

The cat in the hat. Password becomes Tcith2347:

I sent her Father a courtesy message that her cell service is ending today.

Always a gentleman (and far too nice, IMO).

eta: Prickle said:

She can get a new number and contact u that way.

Based on what you've posted about her, she sounds like she likes a challenge in the sense that she isn't the type to give up and go away just because you said so.

[This message edited by Chicky at 11:20 AM, April 17th (Tuesday)]

I'm not sure how you were able to hold yourself together while you were deployed knowing what your wife was doing state side, but however you did it congrats to you!!! You certainly did not deserve what happened to you, but your WW got exactly what she deserved!!! I've never read a story on here that has even come close to this one. I believe you are my new hero LtCdrLost!! The amount of self-control all this must have taken not many people could have withstood. I also believe you are making the right decision to D. This shit doesn't go away and is hardly worth the pain of R. You deserve happiness and someone you can trust!

Thank you so much for your service!!!

Intellectual capabilities are no match in the realm of the moral. Genuis's have been known to commit suicide when confronted with untenable emotional challenges.

[This message edited by MidnightRun at 12:13 PM, April 17th (Tuesday)]

And here I thought BCD meant bastard crybaby dick.

My bad

Scarlett, you just made the Quotes Thread down in F+G

Well, I'm glad that we've been able to establish that even the brightest people can stupid enough to have an affair. I'll add that to my list of non-factors.

How are you doing, Mister Lost? Are you getting some sleep, eating right, drinking lots of water?

The battle moves to the legal arena.

The Navy and your lawyer appear to have the knives at the ready. Any sensible atty would advise your wife to seek a quick resolution.

The crucial difference in the shitbird’s case with the Navy is his CO originating the Article 134 charge. I’ll admit the military justice system is not an area in which I have any meaningful experience. I have no regrets for making that courtesy call prior to my appointment with the JAG. Whether or not he initiated events, my life changed in the back blast of his involvement. I’d have rather challenged him to a duel but this will do.

[This message edited by LtCdrLost at 10:11 PM, May 4th (Friday)]

He wouldn't have accepted your challenge to a dual.

I know his kind. He's a chump.

Your stbxw is so self-centered she really has no idea or clue how much pain and heartbreak her lack of loyalty has caused you, because unlike her boy toy you have not come crying to her.

She can only understands emotions that revolve around her like she is the SUN of everyone who loves her’s universe.

B4 you cut off the phone, you can call your provider and get a 2 year history of her texts and calls.

When you file for D, you can get statement copies of any secret accounts she has/had. Chances are she paid for those trips, and you can recoup the $$ at the D.

Yep, she probably paid for those trips.

The trip to Annapolis and the Boat School is what really made me want to light 'em up.

The trip to Annapolis and the Boat School is what really made me want to light 'em up.

Yes, isn't it funny (sad, not ha ha) that certain things feel like an even bigger betrayal. She shared something that was so fundamentally "yours" with an outsider.

For me, after the confrontation night, the last night he slept in the house, I was in the bedroom dry-heaving because I was crying so hard. He was in the spare room texting her and telling her what I was doing. Really? He was so detached by that point. And yes, I got up in the middle of the night to take pictures of their text messages. He didn't know where I was getting my info or the extent of what I knew. He was still trying to gaslight me.

Hugs to you, LtCdr.

LCL

Annapolis May be a trigger for you. Watch that and talk that through in your counseling.

The trip to Annapolis? Looks like she wanted to re-create the 'love' experience she once shared with you.

Sick.

I hear you on that one LtCdr......

Can’t believe she walked around the Chapel she was M to you in with this POS.....

Shows just how far he head was up her rear end.

Woo-hoo!

Thanks FaithFool!

Annapolis May be a trigger for you. Watch that and talk that through in your counseling.

At some point before I PCS (permanent change of station), I'm going up there for a visit. In uniform. There's no way those vermin are owning that place.