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Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 6:48 AM on Monday, June 6th, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 3:34 AM on Tuesday, June 14th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 4:04 AM on Thursday, June 16th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 5:35 AM on Saturday, June 18th, 2011
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:06 AM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:15 PM on Monday, June 27th, 2011
BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Littlegirllost ( member #21769) posted at 3:19 PM on Monday, June 27th, 2011
Boundaries = Stating the obvious.
If I have to explain to my spouse these rules and/or set them... we have ultimately nothing to talk about. I do not see the point in stating the obvious.
Me: BS 48 yrs.
FWH 50
D'day: 5/22/08
2 EA's, 1 PA during 5 month period of time
A Midlife Crisis gone wild
In R
hathnofury ( member #32550) posted at 10:51 PM on Monday, June 27th, 2011
Great post. I need to keep this in mind as i write my boundaries out. I definitely would not have taken this approach on my own.
BS 43, SAWH 38. M 15years, together 17. Body count in the triple digits. Both in recovery, trying to R.
Three kids under age 11.
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 10:05 PM on Thursday, June 30th, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 6:05 PM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 7:11 PM on Sunday, July 10th, 2011
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 2:19 AM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 2:47 PM on Thursday, July 21st, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:16 AM on Friday, July 22nd, 2011
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 1:49 PM on Friday, August 5th, 2011
BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
NewTurn ( member #26399) posted at 2:49 AM on Monday, August 8th, 2011
BW-45
DDay too many to count! Many false R till final DDay Dec 5 2008
Divorced Feb 2009
Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results!
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 12:36 AM on Wednesday, August 10th, 2011
annb ( member #22386) posted at 8:27 PM on Thursday, August 11th, 2011
NewTurn ( member #26399) posted at 5:09 AM on Friday, August 12th, 2011
BW-45
DDay too many to count! Many false R till final DDay Dec 5 2008
Divorced Feb 2009
Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results!
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 2:27 AM on Sunday, August 14th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
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