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crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 7:20 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
MOW worked for WH but is now unemployed, she was a delivery driver for him.
She is a single mother who is no longer with her BS.
She does not have a college degree.
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
HoneyMe ( member #40613) posted at 8:22 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
Skank #1 Married mother to two toddlers, worked at at an animal hospital.
Skank #2 Nurse, Married 3 times.
Skank #3 Nurse Practitioner in a women's health center. She had no problem having unprotected sex. She gives vaginal examines to betrayed wives when needed to check out for all those pesky STD's.
Not married at the moment.
3 A's
Blinded-sided DD 9/2011
Again 11/2011 and then more truth the next day. Separated 4 months. 2012, the year of truth and reconciliation.
crestfallen ( member #27993) posted at 8:30 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
OW was a sales rep in H's company, he was the CEO....but not her direct boss.
My S worked there too, she went after him first, and after he turned her down, she set her sights on his Daddy! Sweet..
She was 36 at the time the A started and lived at home with her beautiful gorgeous Mommy! Can I puke now? She's now 41, and still at home with her beautiful gorgeous mommy! Loser! Never married! Ummmm, I wonder why?
[This message edited by crestfallen at 2:32 PM, September 9th (Monday)]
BS-me-59
WH-59
Married 34 years
OW-Mr. Ed ish! Seriously!
DDAY- 2/21/09
TT until 1/10/10
Working on R and doing well!!
TheClimb ( member #25895) posted at 8:35 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
OW is a secretary for my boss' Aunt and Uncle...
I told him the whole story!
"That which can be destroyed by the truth should be" P.C. Hodgell
CannotTrust ( new member #35605) posted at 8:46 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
Unemployed - high school girlfriend
A Dumsel in distress
BS (Me) 47
WS 46
1st DDay February 5, 2012
2nd DDay August 24, 2012
3rd Dday October 10, 2012
4th Dday and found out False Reconciliation October 20, 2012
Not Sure If I want to Divorce or keep reconciling???
Garnet ( member #39070) posted at 9:00 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
Skank is now divorced(married while she was fucking my husband in parking lots in her clown car) has 3 kids, twins were 4 years old when affair started.... how did she find the time?? She is an ELL TUTOR, got a job in the same school system as me!! She's a fucked up headcase!!! I'm so lucky!!!
sunflowergirl30 ( member #28979) posted at 10:08 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
Ok here it goes...
My husbands former AP/mow is a 48yr. old twice married onced divorced mother of 2 adult children and 1minor child. She was our realtor. She wasn't interested in selling our house...just in f*cking my h. She succeeded. Oh and shes a taurus.
First D-day May 2010, Last D-day Sept 2015. Filed for divorce Nov. 2015
Divorce final March 4, 2016
To many false R’s to mention. One to many affairs to list. Cheaters suck, suck the life right out of you, as they smile in your face..
Whalers11 ( member #27544) posted at 11:16 PM on Monday, September 9th, 2013
OW worked as a part-time bartender, and part-time in retail.
bionicgal ( member #39803) posted at 12:36 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Lord, they really do affair down don't they!
A 40-year-old PT desk clerk at the gym.
me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.
Issaquah ( member #34484) posted at 12:59 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
OW1 - hair stylist for my WH (he was my fiancée at the time)
OW2 - SAHM married mother of three who had a history of running off with other men.
OW3 - Teacher, she didn't know she was an OW...not sure if I should count her.
OW4 - Parole Officer on heavy psych meds, recently divorced with a teenage son - met WH on Ashley Madison, she was also a swinger during her married years.
OW5 - Married mother of a 5 year old full time student and secret dominatrix - I'm not sure if her BH knew her fetish side.
OW6 - "Bus Boy" at Ruby Tuesday's and then got a job at an Acura dealer. She was living with her teen age son in a room donated by a church.
OW7 - Not sure what her profession was- she was married and a mother, also into swinging - I found out about her when she sent my WH an invitation to a swingers party.
OW8 - Mother recently separated, teacher
OW9 - Works as a clerk processing bankruptcy. She has an adult son in year doing time for drugs.
BS - Me, 45
ExWS - Husband, 47 SA dx in March 2013
T-25, M-21 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays / OWs since 1999
Most recent DDay 8-12
Divorced
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 1:07 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
OW 1 - 3: No clue
OW 4: Sales/Marketing
Main OW: set decorator film/tv
OW 6 - ???: no clue
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
brknwmn ( member #40603) posted at 1:11 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
School teacher, single mom, with 3 kids
5'5" 250 lbs, & late 30's-early 40's.
(I'm 5"1" 110 lbs, & 26) fucking idiot of a husband...don't they normally go for younger more in shape? he went for older, out of shape...guess i better bust out the twinkies
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Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13
Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.
stunnedin12 ( member #38141) posted at 1:58 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Lawyers involved.
BeyondBreaking ( member #38020) posted at 3:08 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
let's see here:
XWF's OW was a student. Unemployed.
DD's dad (my other ex)'s OW worked as a checked at Safeway. Anyone message me and I will give the store address. 
Haha
WH's OW's...I have no idea what they did for a living. Their conversations never went there. I find it funny...I would NEVER send pictures of my "lady parts" to some guy from the internet that I didn't know...especially someone who didn't know me well enough to know what I did for a living. Sad, really.
I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.
"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 3:59 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Main OW#1 is a college educated married stay-at-home mom of two, and was my BFF since I was 9.
Craig's List Ad OW#2 worked for the state, and got transferred away, which is why the A ended.
Craig's List Ad Attempted OW#3 turned out to be a 15yo H.S. Student. WH went to meet her and was greeted by the police on D-Day #1.
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 5:01 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
PhD in speech pathology. Ironic because I'd like to cut her tongue out!
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
MegM ( member #34941) posted at 5:15 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
She says she is a SAHM who loves to be 'their for her children' A christian with traditional values.
In fact a part-time music teacher, zumba instructor and singer (music theatre and dance band).
BS / fWS me 41 (@ DDay)
fWS / BS him 39-BlindFreddy (@DDay)
My DD's 13 Jan 2012 / 29 Jan / 27 Feb (Trickle truth for 5 wks)
His DDay Dec 2003 (details 06/12)
Married
3 ch(6 - 16 at discovery)
remembering "Sunshine on my shoulders"
surviving1963 ( member #40393) posted at 5:17 AM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
OW was my husband's "Psychic". As soon as they met they felt a "deep connection" She said she sees and hears dead people. OW does "Angel readings" for BH and some of his family. Some of them literally worship her. So precious! They both admitted to falling in love and feel like soul mates. They said they will "just be friends", but will never discontinue contact.
Me: almost 50
Him: almost 50
married 32 years
7 great kids
7 awesome grandkids
1st d day 3-4-12
2nd d day 8-19-12
Divorcing the narcissist
Me: 54
WH: 54
Married 34 years.
D-Days 3-4-12, 8-19-12
4 sons, 3 daughters
9 grandkids
D final Oct 2015
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 1:54 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
ONS #1 - Escort
"Crush" texting just-friend - the girl who did his payroll
ONS #2 - a nail tech/yoga instructor that he picked up at a bar (don't picture a slim toned hottie - I didn't know yoga instructors could be so, er, rotund)
shiloe ( member #1224) posted at 2:45 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Both were MOW reg. nurses who worked on his unit. He is also a nurse, I put him through college. 
But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17
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