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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 4:07 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014

((((Jana))))

I'm holding onto some hope for you.

You must be climbing the walls. Stay safe in this weather, snuggle Baby Green lots.

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 5:53 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014

(((Jana))) Thinking of you every day and sending strong mojo to you.

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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 JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 2:36 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

Well now the u/s tech I am supposed to see at 3:45 today will not be in due to the weather. Excuse me while I go bang my head against the wall.

[This message edited by JanaGreen at 8:36 AM, January 29th (Wednesday)]

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 2:52 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

Errrgggghhhh! So sorry Jana. Please don't hurt your head. (((Jana)))

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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sunandmoon ( member #10180) posted at 3:19 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

Jana-

My MIL wokrs as a practive manager for a MD. Call your MDs office, let them know that you need to have this ultrasound and they will find a way to make it happen (assuming it is not an office with only one ultrasound tech). If the receptionist is not helpful request to speak to the practice manager or your MDs nurse.

Thinking of you and wanting you to get answers.

sunandmoon

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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 3:23 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

^ what sunandmoon said. They NEED to give you answers.

Making you wait is cruel. If the rest of the office can get in with the weather then so should the US tech (unless he/she lives in a remote area and was snowed in.)

I live in a snow state. We still have to go to work, even on days I wish they'd cancel appts and let us close.

I just looked at your location....I know in the south this weather is not normal and it makes things difficult for travel. Can your doctor make you an appointment at the nearest hospital?

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:34 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

((((Jana))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 3:42 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

((((Jana)))))

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 3:45 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

You're down here in this mess aren't you? I'm so sorry that this is adding more anxiety for you to worry about. I hope you can get some answers soon.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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 JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 4:18 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

We're in the northern edge of the storm. It's not as bad as Atlanta because we are better equipped as far as road treatment but it is still fairly bad. My daughter's daycare is closed for the first time in the 3.5 years she's been going there. However my office, which is 5 minutes from my OBGYN, opened at 11. I just called my family doc to see if they had any advice & they are closed.

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lemony.2008 ( member #20125) posted at 6:43 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

This is beyond frustrating, I'm so sorry Jana.

((((((Jana))))))

Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron

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Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 6:48 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

Did you call to see if one of the crisis pregnancy centers could get you an ultrasound?

I would be doing myself more harm worrying and waiting at this point then if i were to get an ultrasound at a center.

Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's

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cdnmommy ( member #30182) posted at 7:21 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

Hi Jana. Hugs to you. I have had many miscarriages and I know how shitty the waiting is. I hope things work out with this one, but either way feel free to PM me if you want to talk/vent.

Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing

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 JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 7:22 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

Undefinabl I found one close by & they are closed today. Maybe I just need to take a deep breath an realize that if everyone is closed, I need to chill out & stay put.

What frustrates me is that my office is open & they are generally pretty conservative. But yet, my daughters daycare is closed so I am here with her. I COULD try the ER but I hate to take up resources for a non-emergency. :(

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stroppy_wanadoo ( member #11224) posted at 7:39 PM on Thursday, January 30th, 2014

Hi Jana... have been thinking about you and hoping you've been able to reschedule your ultrasound. Just checking to see how that's progressing and how you are doing today!

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:42 PM on Thursday, January 30th, 2014

(((Jana)))

Keeping you in my thoughts.

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 JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 7:44 PM on Thursday, January 30th, 2014

It's in an hour. I'm leaving in 30 minutes. My nerves are shot.

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lemony.2008 ( member #20125) posted at 7:50 PM on Thursday, January 30th, 2014

(((((Jana)))))

My nerves are shot.

Mine would be too!

Thinking of you and sending peace and strength.

More hugs.

Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron

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stroppy_wanadoo ( member #11224) posted at 7:55 PM on Thursday, January 30th, 2014

Good, strong positive thoughts headed your way.

(((Jana and baby)))

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betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 8:36 PM on Thursday, January 30th, 2014

Hugs for you, prayers for you and yours

I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

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