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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 3:17 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
((((YOP))))
Sending you some mojo for this.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:22 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
Keeping you in my prayers today YOP.
May this bring you peace.
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
yearsofpain25 (original poster member #42012) posted at 5:12 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
Thanks everyone. Went well for me. We'll see if she can follow those boundaries. Heading back home. More details later.
Thanks for all the well wishes and pm's too. Will respond later.
yop
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
yearsofpain25 (original poster member #42012) posted at 5:20 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
Should specify she went an hour and 40 minutes before the doc cleared me out so she could check the mental status of her patient. Holy crap I feel like I took the biggest exam of my life and passed with flying colors. All of you did that for me. Thank you.
On the road now. More later
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Edith ( member #38337) posted at 5:24 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
Blessings to you YOP. I am happy it went well. Take care.
E.
The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. John 1:5
william ( member #41986) posted at 5:28 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
me - bh
her - lara01
from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA
??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys
StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 5:29 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
That's just AWESOME, yop!!!!! So very very happy for you. Hope you have a stress-free drive home. YOU DID IT!!!!! Look at how far you've come. Just WOW.
You are on the road to real healing! Love it!
Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 7:23 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
Safe travels YOP.
Looking forward to the update.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:14 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
Glad to hear that it went well for you. I'm looking forward to hearing your update!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 9:47 PM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
an hour and 40 minutes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Boy, did I ever lose -
that's ok,
cause SI won!
(& dearest sister miss tastesome milkshake - platinum's a win for both! 
)
WTG! yop!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yearsofpain25 (original poster member #42012) posted at 12:17 AM on Thursday, May 22nd, 2014
Thanks guys. First things first.
Mrs. yop put in her $100 and I put in my $50.
Best and least expensive education that I ever received. And man did I put it to use today.
Shock and awe. Not sure it all even sunk in. At some point soon I will start a new thread with the details.
Really I can't thank everyone here enough. Roughly 300 miles into the drive home it started to hit me what really just happened. There's no emoticon for it...
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
yearsofpain25 (original poster member #42012) posted at 1:32 PM on Wednesday, May 28th, 2014
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:36 PM on Saturday, May 31st, 2014
(& dearest sister miss tastesome milkshake - platinum's a win for both! )
Should specify she went an hour and 40 minutes
I guess that means I lose, but how come I feel like everyone came out a winner in this?
I will be going directly to paying up now. (I had to wait until my cc's closing date for this month 
)
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
yearsofpain25 (original poster member #42012) posted at 1:45 AM on Sunday, June 1st, 2014
you're right! Somehow we all ended up winners. Well, maybe not the bully so much!
Thanks for playin'
yop
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
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