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jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 11:25 AM on Tuesday, August 30th, 2011
Glad to hear of the progress.
The corporate culture/power structure mentality does seem to make sense in your scenario. It justifies nothing, of course, but it does make sense that this was the starting point to her path of terrible decisions.
Trust is tough---probably the hardest obstacle that you will have to overcome. But as long as she is doing the hard work--and you acknowledge such--it is hard to ask for much more.
This is where time has to play its part.
Good luck.
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
Long Gone ( member #32587) posted at 9:24 PM on Thursday, September 15th, 2011
I for one would like an update.....
you owe us that much Onions
:)
shatteredandlost ( member #16506) posted at 6:35 AM on Friday, September 16th, 2011
I just spent hours reading this thread.
You are a prime example of "cooler heads will prevail".
Now I want an update too. 
A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.” Herm Albright
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:42 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011
Hi, Chopping. Just wondering how you are doing.
Trying2Survive2 ( member #25758) posted at 12:33 PM on Wednesday, October 5th, 2011
I'm betting on the "No news is good news theory."
Would love to hear tooo...
Inquiring minds wanna know!
Faithful Wife ME 52
FWH 47
DDAY #1 1/11/09 EA Online ONLY (NC)
DDAY #2 6/2010 Admitted PA with the same PIG(12/08)
"Anything may be betrayed, anyone may be forgiven, but not those who lack the courage of their own greatness"
thewholetruth ( new member #31900) posted at 1:20 PM on Thursday, November 3rd, 2011
I followed your story very closely as it was eerily close to mine. I hope things are going well for you. I am sure there are many of us here that are interested in how things are going for you.
FYI…
The recent movie with Sara Jessica Parker, I think it’s called “I don’t know how she does it” was a huge trigger for me as it was about co-workers becoming closer and closer.
We all hope to hear from you soon. YOU WERE A HUGE HELP TO ME.
ChoppingOnions (original poster member #31671) posted at 11:51 AM on Friday, November 18th, 2011
Greetings, old friends. I'm so glad this thread hasn't fallen off the board yet. It's been 5-1/2 months since D-Day, and I'm happy to report that life continues to be good in the CO family. We've continued MC since my last report, although there's not much more to hash out at this point. We're still working on some things (intimacy is still a difficult one for me to deal with at times), but it's so very different and better compared to pre-D-Day. I'm proud of my FWW and how amazingly well she has re-committed herself to her family and our marriage.
I think that things might have turned out much differently had I not had SI and the help of so many posters to turn to. Each one of you can pat yourselves on the back for helping save this one, and I hope that sharing my experience here has helped a few others as well.
She never was aware of this thread here, and my activity on SI will remain as my little secret. I'm not going away, but I do hope that all your past help will ensure that I never need it quite in the same capacity.
Lastly, I just want to offer my best wishes and ((((hugs)))) to everyone dealing with the demons of infidelity. I never imagined how hard it could be, and I know many of you have endured situations far worse than mine. Stay strong, seek inspiration, and make the most of life, whatever path you follow.
Forever grateful,
CO
BS(me)-44
WW-43
Married-15 yrs
Daughter-(4)
D-Day: 5/31/11(EA/??PA)
D-Day #2 (PA), #3, #4: 6/1/11 (WTF?!)
hathnofury ( member #32550) posted at 4:35 PM on Friday, November 18th, 2011
I'm very glad to hear positive news on your end. That's fantastic. This thread has been immensely helpful to me, so it's even better that it is continuing to go well. Good luck and take care of yourself.
BS 43, SAWH 38. M 15years, together 17. Body count in the triple digits. Both in recovery, trying to R.
Three kids under age 11.
happyman64 ( member #33212) posted at 5:29 PM on Friday, November 18th, 2011
Hey CO,
I am very happy for you and your family.
It is nice to see a marriage succeed against the odds for a change.
Stay vigilant! Stay happy.
Good Luck
HM64
Long Gone ( member #32587) posted at 8:11 PM on Friday, November 18th, 2011
Thats great CO....
I was wondering where you went to....followed your story from the beginning.
Now if we could only get Feb 6th, 2011 to post an update
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 8:41 PM on Friday, November 18th, 2011
CO, I am glad you are making progress!
Lots of support your way my friend. Thanks for stopping by and keeping us updated,
Wounds
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 10:04 PM on Friday, November 18th, 2011
Thanks for stopping by and keeping us updated,
Ditto....
Bufffalo
etaoin ( member #33270) posted at 12:50 AM on Saturday, November 19th, 2011
What about the poly? Please say you did not bag it.
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