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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 7:08 PM on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
you can call a pig a petunia, but it's still a swine.
Credit to Unfound for this lovely gem 
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 4:44 PM on Sunday, August 4th, 2013
StillGoing:
I really don't like the love tank shit at all...because rather than place the fillerup requirements on the owner of the tank, it's on whatever nozzle is available to pump its sweet, sweet love fuel into that tank.
BOOM!
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 7:04 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Stronger08 on a thread about how tough it is to climb a difficult "mountain" alone.
The road to self contentment is best traveled alone. Once you get to your happy place others will be there to greet you. Don't allow anyone, no matter how good their intentions hold you back.
Word!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 3:48 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
The hand of what you wish it to be is holding your soul to the grindstone of what is.
jjct in the NPD thread.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
honesttoafault ( member #27105) posted at 3:56 PM on Sunday, August 11th, 2013
Threnoby: I was just about to post that one by jjct also! 
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:22 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
SI in a nutshell.
You just made 40,000 new friends.
Better stock up on the beer.
We're coming over.
From jjct, he's on a roll. He's giving advice to a newbie in JFO.
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 3:22 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013
Is this a record?
Well then THANK YOU JESUS!
...and Thren & kernel, it's a bit overwhelming, Thank you!)
[This message edited by jjct at 5:02 PM, August 12th (Monday)]
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:50 PM on Wednesday, August 14th, 2013
BUT, in some cases, when you are dealing with a partner, child, etc. who has mental illness or diagnosable personality disorders, Jesus himself could come down with a u-haul full of miracles and it wouldn't matter much. Unless one of those miracles was healing the brain.
jackfish - a brand new member - on the emotional needs thread in General.
Love. This.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 9:40 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013
They are so self-consumed and egotistical that even Jesus would hold my earrings for me...
PurpleRose commenting on the selfish and entitled nature of certain wasbands.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 1:16 AM on Friday, August 16th, 2013
Darnit NIK I was just about to post that!
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:54 PM on Friday, August 16th, 2013
Don't f^ck with me. I was married to the F^cker State Champ; I know all the countermoves.
Imnellnow on the just sayin' thread.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
PurpleBirch ( member #39170) posted at 12:24 AM on Saturday, August 17th, 2013
Sorry, but the only pot a "lady" would stir, would be the soup on her stove. That "lady" runs up and down the beach barking wildly and peeing on the seaweed.
Skan in My H ex tried to add me on LinkedIn in general.
Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.
DS (6), DS (18 months)
Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".
Status: Done like dinner
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 12:19 AM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
Flowers on the other hand always seem to say "Here's a dead plant, lets fuck."
aesir in an epic deconstruction of the fundamental importance of gifts.
Truly epic.
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 7:46 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
I SO want to rip into him like a monkey on a cupcake,
From Phoenix in D forum on wanting to reply to her xh. Made me
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 12:56 AM on Friday, August 23rd, 2013
"He is beautiful if he keeps his mouth shut."
-- Reality's daughter in...
Who cares where or why, it applies to so many people.
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 1:12 AM on Friday, August 23rd, 2013
its like he's getting pecked to death by a big slutty chicken
Suckstobeme in D/S
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:45 PM on Friday, August 23rd, 2013
I guess upkeep of Fantasy Land Castle must be expensive...there's maintenance of the moat, feeding the unicorn herd, financing fire works displays, sparkle dust and all of the extravagant gifts for her majesty Princess Skankapotamus.
areyoukidding talking about her ex's bankruptcy in D/S.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 4:37 AM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
I was sharing the internal dialog I rely upon while resisting the urge to argue with someone who's alternate reality is a persistent annoyance.
NIK just showing off!
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:44 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
The thing is, you need to make this the story of your life, not the story of his.
TrustedHer, responding beautifully to a post about not being able to stop checking on a WH.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:30 PM on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013
On the plus side, I haven't murdered anybody, my teeth have cleaned up nicely and I haven't murdered anybody.
h0peless, accentuating the positives about quitting smoking.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
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