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TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 3:59 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
You can not sneak off the bus because people riding it deserve answers/details for your empty seat (((TheBest))). I think it's in the rule book that you have to give a notice before you can exit the bus. 
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 4:32 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
TheBest ( member #50759) posted at 12:56 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Oh. Ya, my bad. I wasn't on the bus that long. I think I officially bought my ticket sometime around August. First time in my adult life to go so long without. I think I was starting to twitch.
I met someone a few weeks ago. Had an epic 12 hour date, had another date where things got even more heated. Finally, the gloves came off Monday and I officially stepped off the bus.
I will be seeing her again on Saturday. Have to extend my non-bus rider status. 
I've had plenty of chances to get off of the bus/stay off the bus, but I just hadn't been there mentally. This one I felt was worth the risk. Look up mark manson "Fuck yes or no". I finally found a fuck yes, and went for it.
BS: me
WS: her
2 DDs
Trying to figure out my next move. Probably some alcohol.
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:23 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Finally, the gloves came off Monday
Oh no....you are doing it wrong. The glove was supposed to go ON!
TheBest ( member #50759) posted at 1:33 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Hahaha, ya, I betting on someone saying that. Without going into details, it was quite fun, quite intense, and just the beginning.
BS: me
WS: her
2 DDs
Trying to figure out my next move. Probably some alcohol.
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 1:34 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
😂😂😂
Congrats TheBest! And yeah - glove ON dude...be safe and have fun with your new partner!
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
TheBest ( member #50759) posted at 4:29 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
STDs and unwanted pregnancies are a good thing, right?
Though useful, I have to say I'm glad I'm off the bus. I'll be back in another 7-8 probably. 6 months is the waiting period right?
BS: me
WS: her
2 DDs
Trying to figure out my next move. Probably some alcohol.
JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 5:40 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
I think it's in the rule book that you have to give a notice before you can exit the bus.
If that's the case, I will be getting off the bus in 23 days (October 21)
🙄
Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 7:49 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
You can not sneak off the bus because people riding it deserve answers/details for your empty seat
Does it count if you say it on another thread and hardly anyone picks up on it??? 
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
TS68 ( member #40211) posted at 8:18 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Okay so this is fun... Look out jm72... Ladies first...
Me: 48
Him: 50
Married 22 years too many
DS19, DS17, DD10
Divorced
Know your worth.
JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 8:22 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Yeah-yeah-yeah.....ladies always first 😒
Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true
JM72 ( member #50760) posted at 9:08 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Okay so this is fun... Look out jm72... Ladies first...
Actually, I have no idea who this guy is, but don't get your hopes up for - "ladies first"
😒
Me - BS (43)
Her - the Princess (AKA "the victim") (44)
Married 25 years, together 27
Dday - January 2016
DS - 25, DS - 18, DD - 16, DD - 13
Divorcing - To thy own self be true
Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 10:31 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Congratulations Thebest!!!
OMG I don't know why I am in the bus still!! I am feeling impatient but afraid of another relationship. I guess I still need some more healing to do.
dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again
TheBest ( member #50759) posted at 12:22 PM on Thursday, September 29th, 2016
I'm not going to lie. I took my time. I had plenty of chances but I just didn't feel it. I have a very strong connection to this one and I wanted to take it to the next level. If I hadn't felt it, I would have been continuing my ride on the bus.
It was because of this woman that my therapist actually gave me a hug. I had a breakthrough in that I wasn't looking for the door. I actually wanted to pursue something.
BS: me
WS: her
2 DDs
Trying to figure out my next move. Probably some alcohol.
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 5:09 AM on Friday, September 30th, 2016
Wait, what? Cant, you got something to tell us??
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:39 PM on Friday, September 30th, 2016
Wait, what? Cant, you got something to tell us??
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
TheBest ( member #50759) posted at 1:48 PM on Friday, September 30th, 2016
BS: me
WS: her
2 DDs
Trying to figure out my next move. Probably some alcohol.
TheBest ( member #50759) posted at 1:48 PM on Friday, September 30th, 2016
edit: double post
[This message edited by TheBest at 7:48 AM, September 30th (Friday)]
BS: me
WS: her
2 DDs
Trying to figure out my next move. Probably some alcohol.
Igglepiggle ( member #47519) posted at 8:26 AM on Saturday, October 1st, 2016
Nekorb if you are driving I need you to hit the brakes pronto - IgglePiggle is jumping off!!!
Only been 18 months - someone keep my seat warm just in case
BW: me (39), WH: him (39). Married 2 years together 20
DDays 9/2014, 4/2015 same OW 4.5 months pregnant!! Second on the way.....2 in 1 year!
You cut me deep, it hurt to feel, it's taking time, but wounds, they heal. Now you're just a scar
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 9:00 AM on Saturday, October 1st, 2016
::::puts brake to the floor::::
Details!!!
Iggle and cantaccept...
We are waiting for a detailed account of your exit, please.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
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