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Did you actually think I would respond to your text after almost 3yrs? You don't think you should have to pay the last couple of months of spousal support. You think you have went above and beyond being so generous with your petty little $300/mo. You want to say I owe you because I sold the COWS. Where the fuck were you in the middle of winter when they needed to be fed? Running off with whoreface and having the time of your life while I was stuck taking care of EVERYTHING and begging the neighbor to feed those cows. YES fucker I sold them!!! I knew I could if I did it before I filed for D, so I did and I didn't give you one dime more than what you put on your drunken list of what belonged to you. So, you forgot to add things because you were drunk when you and whoreface made the list....too fucking bad, so sad. Cry me a river. Oh, and then after whining about everything...You want to wish me the best. I am so touched that you care, not!!! Well you got crickets from me and that's all you will ever get. I laughed when you made my deposit because you are afraid I would file contempt when I didn't respond to your heart felt text and you are scared of judges and lawyers. If only whoreface knew what a truly stupid coward you really are. Your number comes up under the name of Dumbass on my phone.

Me, I am doing great. I do have the best!!!! I married a really sweet man who makes twice what you ever made. I no longer have to split the bills 50/50. He likes me at home taking care of our sweet furbabies. Once the SS is finished, it will be time to start collecting on your pension for the rest of my life. Nobody ever said infidelity was fair.

32 yrs. I loved you more than anyone could love another person. We had 3 beautiful children together. We were so close to being empty nesters and realizing our future with no debt, no mortgage and travel. You’ve ruined it all. I’ve come to realize it was always about you, you and your fucking business that you couldn’t make more than $15,000.00 at because you were so stubborn and narcissistic that you couldn’t and wouldn’t face the fact that you sucked at it. You left me for a guy who has a spousal abuse on his record, been taken to small claims court numerous times for failure to pay his bills, and has a court date in July for theft. Your family is on my side, your clients are leaving, and your two oldest children want nothing to do with you. The youngest will soon find out about your infidelity and he will also abandon you and rightfully so. Your AP is unemployed and will cheat on you as he has his previous 3 wives. I honestly think that you’ve lost your mind and soon the fog will lift and you will look around and be all alone. I used to mourn for you, now I say FUCK you! Good luck with your future, hope it was worth it.

Learning the hard way. Called off two TO hearings. One false reconciliation. He’s still seeing the SLUT. He’s still lying. I am to blame because I filed for D. Yes I want honesty, fidelity, passion, love and someone who wants to spend time with his family that’s just too much to ask from the biggest selfish prick I know. This forum has educated me and given me peace. Thank all of you.

The more I learn about what you have done, the more disgusted I am. You are one VERY SICK FUCK. You make my skin crawl - I am so thankful to have you out of my life! Now if you would only get out of my head....

Because sometimes (for about two months now) i'd like to post something really cutting and disparaging.

Are you even real you pompous prick?

I don't think so.

[This message edited by MadOldBat at 2:36 PM, June 11th, 2018 (Monday)]

This divorce is going to cost a fortune. And it will be YOUR fault.

You are by far the most unintelligent man I have ever met in my life. I should have stopped dating you the moment you told me you didn't enjoy reading. No wonder I never had any desire to engage you in conversation. You never had anything interesting to say.

You actually think "I'm going to (country/territory). I have an EPIRB and a life raft" is sufficient information to get me to hand over the passports of our 3 small children. Are you out of your moronic mind? What mother in the early stages of what is sure to be the ugliest divorce in history would hand them over?

So now your equally idiotic attorney will file a motion to get me to give you the passports. What judge is going to do that??? You need 2 parents to consent. I am NOT consenting.

You are a disgusting piece of shit. You have "no money" to reimburse me for kids' expenses and vet bills, but plenty to take 2 back to back vacations with our kids...on your YACHT. "Who the FUCK did I Marry", indeed!!

Did I mention you are stupid? Really really really stupid.

Pleeeaasse pick one of your awesome cookie-baking girlfriends as you primary narc supply and leave me ALONE. Just GO AWAY. Moron.

Went to my attorney today to prepare an out of court settlement. I feel better.

He hasn’t done a damn thing to get this settled. I want this over now. My attorney believes we will have to go to mediation again. (Because dick head is on his second attorney) Asshole thinks after 32 years of marriage and me working for him this whole time none of the business is mine and I don’t deserve any alimony. He’s got a lot to learn. He has ruined his relationship with our two grown daughters and their family. His hobbies and the Slut come first. He hasn’t seen our grandsons for over a month. He’s a true POS.

Stop buying them fucking presents!!!!! Just fucking stop!!! You cannot buy their love. You have decided your love of power games and sex with fake tits fuck buddy is so much more important that your kids. They'll know that one day, it's envitable and they'll hate that side of you. You're not the father they need or deserve just the bloody sperm donor!!!

You really are a total and utter moron!

I know what you are doing.

I am worried about the kids being exposed to her. Getting to know her, care about her and then you f***ing it up as always.

How the F do you call yourself enlightened?

How the F do you tell me you want us back?

How the F do you not see the pattern again?

How the F are you so stupid that you don't realise that the fact that you keep saying you will not start a new relationship means crap when you are actually starting one?

HOW THE FUCK CAN YOU LOOK AT YOURSELF?!

Drunk again?

You pathetic arse.

Passed out in the chair.

I can hear your repulsive snoring from here,

upstairs,

In my room,

With the door shut.

For goodness sake!

You're a waste of space.

If you're determined to drink yourself to death, i wish you'd hurry the fuck up!

I hope your penis and balls get caught in the Nutri-bullet.

I hope your penis and balls get caught in the Nutri-bullet.

^ I'll borrow this, and double it ^

OMG, you fucking DICK. I hate you, hate you, hate you. And I really miss the person I thought you were.

So, one, how fucking KIND of you that you didn't sleep with me and then never talk to me again. You are a saint among men.

Two, it's all about ME? WHAT? Promises, promises, promises. All you did was make promises and then did you keep any of them? ONE, no, wait, TWO promises you kept. You kept TWO. FUCKING. Promises. Man, I hate you. My only saving grace is that at least I had the thought of breaking up with you. But, no, I didn't. You are a jerk.

Fuck you selfish asshole

I hope the money makes you very happy because that's all you have.

this is what you've lost....

your reputation in the community and business community - so much so you had to move

your job of 25 years - got fired

your children - three adult children not speaking to you

my family ...they want to see you dead

your father died being disappointed in you

your mother is disappointed in you

so I hope when you lay your head on your pillow at night, that money keeps you warm.

It's Thursday night...

I've watched a two episodes of Supernatural, I've had a glass of wine, I've had a pampering me session, I've eaten healthily, I'm now settling down to read a book (not on infidelity).

I've had a lovely evening.

I've gone NC, and Thursdays won't trigger me into an anxious state again.

You can do what the hell you please now... I've let go... and it feels amazing!!

It's Thursday night and it's been lovely!

I am missing you this week. It has taken everything to not contact you.

Now i am really thinking about moving— too expensive here by myself.

Why did you have to do this? We had a good thing. You cried that out on D-Day- you liked our life. Just damn you. Damn you for being so f*cking entitled and selfish and weak.

And damn me for still missing that.

Stupid infidelity. There are no winners. No winners at all.

I am missing you this week. It has taken everything to not contact you.

Now i am really thinking about moving— too expensive here by myself.

Why did you have to do this? We had a good thing. You cried that out on D-Day- you liked our life. Just damn you. Damn you for being so f*cking entitled and selfish and weak.

And damn me for still missing that.

Stupid infidelity. There are no winners. No winners at all.

So it's me that hurts today. It's Father's Day and you've taken this from our boys. You've taken the memories of them waking up to their daddy. Putting their little arms around your neck and kissing you... their daddy... their special guy.., on a special day. They'll never know this. You've stolen this from them. You and that bitch of yours. You've stolen the pride children should feel in their father... once they're older they'll just be meh about you, you'll be the man who walked out on them when they were so small. Who put himself before them. They'll know and they'll think you're a loser. And you are. They'll see you for four hours this morning. Four bloody hours. You've probably come from hers. On Father's Day you woke up in her bed. Wonder if she'll miss Mother's Day with her children... oh wait a minute... her children have lost nothing.

Their special guy.

Their daddy.

The man who should have moved heaven and earth for them.

Just thought of himself.

Hope this makes you happy.

[This message edited by Dragonfly123 at 6:51 AM, June 17th (Sunday)]

Happy Father's Day, douchebag.

I'm curious what "legal action" you're talking about? Surely some additional way to fuck up the lives of your 3 innocent children. Once again, putting yourself and your agenda first.

Seriously, Earth, I have the perfect jerk you can swallow whole. Just open up right under his feet.

[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 6:40 AM, June 17th (Sunday)]