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cass ( member #24261) posted at 11:26 PM on Thursday, December 17th, 2009
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
slowlymending ( member #26454) posted at 7:19 AM on Friday, December 18th, 2009
BW-me
Slowlymending....
Live your questions now, and perhaps without even knowing it, you will live along some distant day into your answers. Rilke
JoePike ( member #13207) posted at 2:50 AM on Saturday, December 19th, 2009
bumping Ser's fantastic post for all newcomers. Please read and take the advice of someone much more eloquent than I am. 
"Do or do not. There is no Try" - Yoda.
"The term “mistake” infers a level of ignorance, innocence and naivety. And a lack of intent and planning." - Craig Harper
cass ( member #24261) posted at 11:16 PM on Sunday, December 20th, 2009
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
slowlymending ( member #26454) posted at 4:35 AM on Wednesday, December 30th, 2009
BW-me
Slowlymending....
Live your questions now, and perhaps without even knowing it, you will live along some distant day into your answers. Rilke
Balancing Act ( member #19047) posted at 3:33 AM on Thursday, December 31st, 2009
Me - BS....living a wonderful new beginning and giving love another chance
Tulsa Area Coffee Buddy
Phoenix_Reborn13 ( new member #26996) posted at 9:22 AM on Friday, January 1st, 2010
Just wanted to say thanks all for the support. If it wasnt for this site, and my family, and friends, I would be lost. Oh and bumpity bump bump 
BH: 34(Me)
WS: 27(Her)
OM: 20 immature kid
D Day: 11/28/2009
WS hasn't contacted me AT ALL in almost a month. Guess shes doing JUST FINE.
[This message edited by Phoenix_Reborn13 at 3:23 AM, January 1st (Friday)]
BS: 34 (Me)
WS: 27 (Her)
OM: 20 immature little kid
D-Day: 11/28/2009
WS hasnt contacted me in a month since separation. Looks like she is doing JUST FINE!
annb ( member #22386) posted at 3:13 AM on Sunday, January 3rd, 2010
slowlymending ( member #26454) posted at 6:20 AM on Monday, January 4th, 2010
bump for newbies and lurkers
BW-me
Slowlymending....
Live your questions now, and perhaps without even knowing it, you will live along some distant day into your answers. Rilke
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 6:39 AM on Monday, January 4th, 2010
Thnx SerJr ...
I hear you loud and clear although I do forget and the emotions get the best of me at times and then it is like being on a log ride ...
Woosh and I have no control ... and I can't see the drop off till it's to late to stop it ...
Ya know does that make sense ???
like I am floating around doing just fine nice easy river ... then a light at the end of the tunnel and before I know it I feel out of control, and all I can do is hold on till the bottom ...
get back up and float around some more just waiting on the surprise impending drop off ???
When does that stop ??? when do I gain control and can steer the stupid log away from the drop off ???
I know you are wise and smart the way you are because of your own pain ... and you have such amazing insightful advice ... it all really makes sense when I read it, and seems so easy and feaseable for me to do ...
but then I get out of control again and I can'y member what you wrote ...
when did you get your control back ... just to control your emotions and decide yes I can be emotional now or no now is not the time maybe later, and just shelve it till the time is right for you ...
I could go on ....
Thnx for all your help and keep doing what your doing we all so appreciate you
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 6:52 PM on Monday, January 4th, 2010
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 7:16 AM on Tuesday, January 5th, 2010
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 7:16 AM on Tuesday, January 5th, 2010
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
devtutor ( member #21134) posted at 8:57 PM on Tuesday, January 5th, 2010
lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 6:25 PM on Thursday, January 7th, 2010
Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 12:00 AM on Saturday, January 9th, 2010
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
Illinoisgirl ( member #25686) posted at 1:52 PM on Saturday, January 9th, 2010
I really need to start reading this every day.
Married 12 years, together 18
WH - Recovering alcoholic
Me - Recovering wife
Reconciling?
D-Day 9-27-09
3 great kids - 12, 10 & 8
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 7:14 PM on Saturday, January 9th, 2010
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 12:47 AM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2010
Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.
2Gullible ( member #26354) posted at 3:03 PM on Thursday, January 14th, 2010
Bumping this for newer members and giving some of these articles a re-read.
I am loosing my strength.
I feel alone.
But I will keep trying to 180.
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