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Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 5:11 PM on Sunday, April 25th, 2010
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
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God's hand was an avocado branch
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 10:51 PM on Monday, April 26th, 2010
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
tammyjean100 ( member #28159) posted at 2:33 AM on Thursday, April 29th, 2010
You can't overcome anything without facing it. Betty Ford
AnnieOakley ( member #13332) posted at 1:00 AM on Friday, April 30th, 2010
Me= BSHim=xWH (did the work & became the man I always thought he was, but it was too late)M=23+,T=27+dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced."If you are going through hell, keep going."
AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 8:49 PM on Tuesday, May 4th, 2010
BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.
Lost_Hope ( member #24170) posted at 9:23 PM on Tuesday, May 4th, 2010
This is so well written .. had to bump!! Trying to implement the 180 myself and this really helps me understand!!
“Marriage is three parts love and seven parts forgiveness of sins.”
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Me: BS - 36
Him: WS - 40
Married: 8 years...Together 12 yrs
Kid: SD - 14
Recent DDay: Dec 2, 2011 and again Oct 10, 2012
AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 6:56 PM on Thursday, May 6th, 2010
BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.
tammyjean100 ( member #28159) posted at 11:47 PM on Monday, May 10th, 2010
You can't overcome anything without facing it. Betty Ford
darkdaysrdone ( member #26947) posted at 1:33 PM on Friday, May 14th, 2010
Thank you very much SerJR for the post.
Lesson learned... Never try to change a man. Accept the fact that they are all aliens.
Nouveau ( member #1731) posted at 2:10 PM on Tuesday, May 18th, 2010
I just started the 180. A bit shaky, and I am a work in progress, but have begun to find a tiny bit of peace in this craziness. Self-respect is a biggie. If we don't respect ourselves, nobody else will.
I sing the songs of a woman who has passed through anger and outrage to a kind of stunned resignation in the face of overwhelming human folly.....
JustKeepSwimmig ( member #19269) posted at 1:56 AM on Sunday, May 23rd, 2010
Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 9:48 PM on Wednesday, May 26th, 2010
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
DCJ7002 ( new member #8155) posted at 11:23 PM on Friday, May 28th, 2010
Thank you so much for this!!
Broken up, torn apart deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry behind these Hazel eyes.
D-Day 9/7/05
EA, Tons of internet CRAP
D-Day #2 5/3/10
PA, & online EA with 2 OW.
Me- BS, 42, married 19 yrs.
Him- WS, 44
3 kids,
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 8:27 PM on Sunday, May 30th, 2010
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
Lotsa ( member #28078) posted at 5:39 AM on Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010
ThriveNotSurvive ( member #22093) posted at 8:22 AM on Sunday, June 6th, 2010
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
TheCuckoldsNest ( member #28671) posted at 12:28 PM on Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010
This is such a good thread, I do not want to see it lost. Thank you SerJr for posting it.
Me - 40
BS - 40
D-Day - Multiple
A's - Multiple
I've been married for almost 20 years, her, maybe about 6.
justbreathe ( member #13765) posted at 7:40 PM on Saturday, June 26th, 2010
In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell
realgood2u ( member #20940) posted at 5:28 PM on Tuesday, June 29th, 2010
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/phi/187640237.html
"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cngsVlG3Z60
torn2bits ( member #28376) posted at 1:28 AM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2010
Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted
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