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WarpSpeed ( member #32051) posted at 6:37 PM on Saturday, June 25th, 2011
Very nice! It's an honor being nominated. I always thought I'd be nominated for my kindness, eloquence and can do spirit, and gentle encouragement, but no, my use of profanity...
Which I actually love. I like my cusses sometimes.
I'd like to thank God, my parents, the academy. FREE TIBET!
willowiris in the quote thread seven quotes up
Me: BS (58) Her: fWW (57)Married 28 years
2 awesome sons graduated college in 2015
She left Jan 2010, She filed Mar 2010, Div final May 2010, She shared it was an A July 2010, Remarried Aug 2010
WarpSpeed ( member #32051) posted at 5:39 PM on Sunday, June 26th, 2011
Just give me a lobotomy...that would help.
kitkat22 on the "How can your WH help you recover?" thread.
Me: BS (58) Her: fWW (57)Married 28 years
2 awesome sons graduated college in 2015
She left Jan 2010, She filed Mar 2010, Div final May 2010, She shared it was an A July 2010, Remarried Aug 2010
GeauxTigers ( member #28301) posted at 9:57 PM on Sunday, June 26th, 2011
This thread is awesome! An enterprising soul should host a "best of" thread (are all 11 quote threads still out there?). Then, the top 365 could be made into an SI calendar to raise money for the site. Too much?
Anyway, some of this stuff is priceless, and needs to be preserved. Keep 'em coming, folks! 
Sigh... how did I end up here?
GeauxTigers ( member #28301) posted at 11:51 PM on Sunday, June 26th, 2011
Oh, and since its been my quote for so long, I may as well post it here:
"Guilt wallows and despairs, remorse rolls its sleeves up and gets to work fixing what's broken." -- Inchoate
It don't get no better than that! Thanks Inchoate!
Sigh... how did I end up here?
SabinatheOwl ( member #30023) posted at 4:11 PM on Tuesday, June 28th, 2011
GeauxTigers on Schwankie's thread about why OWs who marry the OM are surprised when the OM/WH cheat on them:
Goes to show you the power of the fog and/or the psychotropic drug SCHMOOPITIPHAN.
ROFL! 
~ Sabina
Details & story in profile
"Live a life not an apology." Edward R.Murrow
"I can be changed by what happens to me but I refuse to be reduced by it."
Maya Angelou
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 12:48 AM on Wednesday, June 29th, 2011
In the thread about wifetress cutting off her DD's hair, Gold Dust Woman had some wisdom (and strength in not buying into their drama):
I try not to deal with xWH and OW/Wife because they seem to thrive when they are mutually attacking me. They turn on each other when I'm unavailable to pick on.
I'm not going to be the boost they need to keep their M going.
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:11 PM on Thursday, June 30th, 2011
StillGoing on whether an EA or Pa is worse:
It's kind of like the difference between cutting off your leg with a spoon or digging out your liver with a pencil.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Snapdragon ( member #4286) posted at 2:45 PM on Friday, July 1st, 2011
Credit to LoveActually in JFO:
I think I'm going to make my husband get a tatoo on his penis that reads "If you are reading this my husband's penis is lost-please call 12345678 to collect your reward"
Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.
"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink
Junebug0525 ( member #29142) posted at 7:17 PM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011
Haha...I almost posted this! ^^^^^
Me: BS
Him: WXH DDay-11/22/2009~ D~ 10/25/10
OWhore: Co-worker (7 years younger)
"Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." AND THEY DID!!!
TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 7:16 AM on Sunday, July 3rd, 2011
keepswimming's ever-thoughtful response to the question about a neighbor's squeaky bed...
what about just putting together a little gift pack? a video game rental card, some trojans, and a can of wd40
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
GeauxTigers ( member #28301) posted at 1:29 AM on Wednesday, July 6th, 2011
ungracie gets a two-fer from me. Two great lines in the same post! Post was about how her WHs sex may not have been that great in retrospect. I think the quotes can be used in isolation or in tandem:
"when you're wearing rose coloured glasses you can't see the red flags", and
"No love to multiply inside an affair, only division. One leaves with less then what they started with."
Sigh... how did I end up here?
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 7:34 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2011
suddenlyisee responding to what a WS should be enthusiastically doing in R:
Reconciliation is NOT a WS being begrudgingly transparent until the BS finally gets so tired of hoping for remorse to happen that they just start pretending it did.
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 10:54 PM on Friday, July 8th, 2011
As far as being alone for the rest of your life, don't think like that. You know how when you learn how to drive, the instructor tells you when you drive in the dark that you shouldn't "overdrive your headlights"? That's just a fancy way of saying, don't look don't look too far down the road; keep focused on what's right in front of you. That's kind of what we have to do right now.
suckstobeme on how to enter new beginnings.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
neverendinghurt ( member #15859) posted at 4:54 AM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011
Willowiris in thread about Westboro baptist protesting Betty Ford funeral
If I ever die and they protest my funeral, it will mean that i lived my life right.
I would also want a counter protest full of drag queens and a champagne fountain. Write it down.
The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.
James M. Barrie
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 7:48 PM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011
biological/physical urges. sigh.
last time I was at the grocery store, I was hungry, famished really. since I am, as a human, biologically programmed to seek and eat food when I'm hungry, I suppose that I would just walk in and start grazing at the produce aisle or maybe diving head first into the frozen food section, or really following my biological urges and start ripping open that lovely brisket with my teeth and filling my belly.
there's this thing called evolution. also free will. oh and lets add in a little thing I call choice.
buy it? not even if it was on qvc 1/2 price and on flex pay.
this comes up from time to time and it never ceases to piss me off.
Unfound in a discussion on the difference between why men and women cheat, and the men who say it's biological.
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
healing2011 ( member #32542) posted at 9:55 PM on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011
Because it's way more comfortable to attend jrc's birthday party than it is to attend the "JRC is here thanks to Papa JRC banging Mama JRC party".
I don't even want to see that cake
darkbeast answering a question from JRC in the birthday cake thread.
Cracked me up!!
Me: BS
Him: XH/WS
DD#1: 12/05/2010
DD#2: 01/20/2011
LTA 6 years
Left the liar Oct. 27, 2011
"...gonna harden my heart ..."
willowiris ( member #5372) posted at 1:41 PM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2011
"My home is clean enough to be healthy and dirty enough to be happy."
AJ's mom...Well, actually it was AJ's mom's MOM who said it, single mom with 4 kids. Amen.
D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006
We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 12:36 AM on Wednesday, July 20th, 2011
Believe us when we say, it wasn't our choices and many of us won't settle for just any hard appendage.
Classic gma, from my "Musings on Year 4 on the Bus"
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:17 AM on Thursday, July 21st, 2011
if you hang out in a barber shop long enough....sooner or later youre gonna get a haircut....
bufffalo
StepAside ( member #29826) posted at 5:03 PM on Tuesday, July 26th, 2011
From General:
Holly-Isis brilliant response to a posting regarding the OW cussing out greenmoose for having contact with OW's BS:
Use the typical OW rationale and tell her, "If you gave your H what he needed, he wouldn't be coming to me."
Then block the harpy bitch.
Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs STD infected bankrupt NPD sociopathic drunk thief
countless A's, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday 04/12/2010-Divorcing if/when his cumdumpsters lend him some $ or balls to file
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