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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:30 PM on Monday, November 19th, 2012
Salted butter is in the red boxes, unsalted butter is in the fuck this stupid bullshit box. Just look at the box.
StillGoing on a Thanksgiving turkey prep thread.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:30 AM on Wednesday, November 21st, 2012
I don't have a new quote, but I just had to comment on "whorebonker."
BEST NEW WORD EVER.
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 7:36 AM on Wednesday, November 28th, 2012
ETA: Speling mistacks
Myname.
*Editing* his post in D/S. 
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 2:26 PM on Wednesday, November 28th, 2012
Aesir in Recon:
Just remember marriage is a team sport.
That means that you win or lose together. Who got the best deal on their contract is not neccessarily the same as who is the MVP.
[This message edited by NoTriangles at 8:27 AM, November 28th (Wednesday)]
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:03 AM on Monday, December 10th, 2012
NIK in PurpleRoses thread "first kid exchange went south"
He can push your buttons with little effort because he installed the fuckers.
LOVE IT!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:01 PM on Thursday, December 13th, 2012
exhaused lady, describing another poster's WS in General -
He's so far in the fog he looks like a character in a Stephen King novel.
Perfection.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 2:17 AM on Friday, December 14th, 2012
I can very well tell you that I'm a piece of broccoli. But until I sprout some green curly hair and start tasting good in a stir fry I can assure you that I'm just full of shit.
serjr explaining the difference between talk and action, in d/s.
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 6:17 PM on Tuesday, December 18th, 2012
^^^ LIKE
That you were finally not full of shit.
Moo, following a post about a colonoscopy.
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:06 PM on Wednesday, December 19th, 2012
In 'Embracing the A' in R:
wert: I think the concept of "get back to our life" is just wrong. You never left your life.
Jrazz: Do I think anyone has to give the damn thing (i.e. the A) a hug? No way.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Bravenewgirl ( member #36267) posted at 12:31 PM on Saturday, December 22nd, 2012
Now he's stuck with what was behind Door #3, the human equivalent of a tethered goat and a 2-year supply of Rice-a-Roni.
need_hope, in a thread in general describing how WH's choosing between the spouse and the OW is kind of like being on Lets Make a Deal.
Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty
NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 1:28 AM on Monday, January 7th, 2013
Momentintime in Recon - regarding taking a WS back when the OP dumped the WS.
Don't make it easy, because they take easy and kill you with it.
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 10:26 PM on Monday, January 7th, 2013
Talk about fruity pebbles! Hopefully, they don't live here in California.
LineInTheSand @ SadInArizona regarding her Cheesy Nut Man and others on OnceinaLifetime's thread about online dating in NB
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 12:20 AM on Thursday, January 10th, 2013
Make it a point not to sit near them in church--you know, to avoid the lightening.
Catwoman, in regards to a WS/AP who made "sacred" vows, their current vows notwithstanding.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 8:34 AM on Friday, January 11th, 2013
A trustworthy partner doesn’t put themselves in compromising situations and demand you trust that they will know when to draw the line. A trustworthy partner does not frequently get caught in white lies and expect you to believe that they wouldn’t lie when it’s important. A trustworthy partner does not behave in a secretive manner under the guise of being private.
It’s hard to trust on the abstract at the beginning of a new relationship, but a trustworthy partner is actually very easy to trust. If you find your concerns are based on behavior rather than simply the idea of infidelity, it isn’t something you should ignore.
Crescita in a post in New Beginnings on Trusting again.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:32 AM on Sunday, January 13th, 2013
Bigger in JFO
Doing your own divorce… well it sounds a lot like buying a razor and then searching for appendectomy on youtube…
Classic.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 11:43 PM on Sunday, January 13th, 2013
A starving man would think cat food was pretty tasty, wouldn't he?
lieshurt in a NB thread on attraction.
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
PippaPeach6 ( member #37523) posted at 6:42 PM on Thursday, January 17th, 2013
Be A Cricket and Carry On
ajsmom in Separation/Divorce
love it!
Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled
Honey Badger don't care. - Randall
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 4:39 AM on Monday, January 21st, 2013
Self sabotage is a term that's bandied about a lot but I don't like it, it's loaded with negativity. There are often excellent reasons for doing the things we do and the trick is self understanding, not cultivating a fear that we are secretly working against ourselves.
InnerLight on New Beginnings
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
WhiteWolfWinning ( member #12475) posted at 4:59 PM on Tuesday, January 22nd, 2013
Did she lose her shift/uppercase button when she threw away her integrity?
StrongButBroken in a reply to a thread in NB in which a member posted a whiny and illiterate text from his X.
Wolf
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 8:06 PM on Thursday, January 24th, 2013
Now I look back and tell myself I must have been out of my rabbit ass mind to ever get involved with him.
Thanks for this one, TrustGone! I have learned the best phrases on SI. This one expands my repertoire which started with bat shit crazy.
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