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Also, there is an HPV vaccine for females between the ages of 11 and 26. If you are older, I don't think you can get the vaccine. But if I had a daughter, I would definitely get her vaccinated. The CDC URL is below.

http://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/vpd-vac/hpv/vac-faqs.htm

Ok, I haven't been on in a while. I've been pretty busy! I wanted to tell you all my story, though. Well, after XH and I divorced, I worried intensely about having to tell someone the truth when it came to dating. I have HSV2. I thought I got it from XH, because I never had any symptoms before we were together. Anyway, long story short, he got tested and it came back negative (slap in the face for me). He said the doctor called him back a few days later and that it could be positive, that they weren't sure after all. Anyway, back to the story. I met a guy. He invited me over for dinner so our kids could meet and we really hit it off. I really liked him. I didn't want to tell him, but I knew if we were ever going to be "together" that I needed to. Well, we'd entered a pretty hot make-out session, and I needed to get it out there before we went any further. I stopped and kind of froze. He asked what was wrong, and I just kind of sat down next to him and kept my eyes on the floor. I told him that I needed to tell him something, but I wasn't sure how, or if I was ready. He just kind of sat there. After a few seconds of hesitation, I told him that, at some point between my first and second marriage, or somewhere along the line (I haven't been with many, so it's not a long list), I'd contracted an STD, and that there was no cure. He paused for a second, then said, "That's it?" I told him yes, and that I needed to tell him. He thanked me and said if that's the only thing he has to settle on, then he's doing pretty good. In other words, it wasn't going to stop him from feeling the way he did, and it wasn't going to get in the way of the relationship. I've started taking meds for it, but it hasn't affected anything. I just wanted to let you all know that if you did contract one, it's not the end of the world, and there are plenty of people out there that are more than willing to look past a little indiscretion like that. Best of luck to you all!

Bump

PPGA,

Does Bump mean that you are bring the post back to the front?

http://www.cdc.gov/STD/

I've noticed quite a few new postings in General and JFO about STD testing. Bumping for new riders!

Updating . . .

Just got the rest of my results back and am relieved and grateful that everything's clear.

Still feel stupid that I didn't go for tests a lot earlier - but it's one less thing to worry about now.

Sorry to hear you've had the worry and pain of HSV2, Junebug. It's brilliant that you've now found someone who can see past it.

Are you finding that the virus is gradually burning itself out?

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Without the meds, not really. I'd have flare-ups a couple times a year. I haven't been on them long enough to know if they work yet, but I'm hoping they do! Fortunately I have no side effects so far.

I had first cervical dysplasia several years ago, treated and it was all clear. Now back requiring pretty painful Leep procedure. I didnt knoe back then what caused it all, and now that I do, and its back, I asked my gyn about it. I dont fit the profile for multiple sex partners etc, but he just shrugged off my concerns. I just think its odd I never had any problems until back then....suspected affairs, but never any proof. Now I'm going thru the same mess again. <sigh>

(((ohgoodgrief)))

My tests came back negative.

The only positive the lab found was beta-hemolytic streptococcus group b. Which is normal I've heard?? I did some google searches and my doctor told me it was nothing to worry about.

Other than that, everything is clear.

Everything was negative except for HSV-1 (cold sores).

Yes, I forgot. I have this too. Which is no problem for me and I knew this beforehand.

Toot toot! Any riders this week?

This is a ride I never wanted to be on. I 34 years old have been sexually active for 17 years. Never had anything other then yeast infection. I get married and now I not only lost the bitch that I thought was my sister but also have dysplasia but hsv2 as well. I feel so dirty right now! I'm going to be taking suppression meds daily but may also have cervical cancer. I didn't even get to have.the passionate new person sex, but.have to suffer ALL of the consequences! Eww what a nasty ass. This may be the unforgivable part!

high risk HPV - fun times.

Welcome, and hugs to unhappyladyinluv and Abby...I'm so sorry...a hell of a ride...stay strong ladies....

Ewwww. Fuckface has been having prostrate issues for a couple of years now. I don't remember this being a problem when we were together in Atlanta (before he went off his meds and flipped out).

Considering that I busted him soliciting street whores recently (he doesn't know that I know), I'm wondering if maybe he has Trichamonas. He could have easily gotten it and, although we haven't had sex in a very long time, possibly given it to me.

I've had recurrent UTI's and what I considered yeast infections.

I've been tested but I don't know if they tested for that specifically and I've been putting off calling to get another appointment. I know I need to go, I know I have to go. Maybe I'm just afraid of what I'll find out.

Egads. Motherfucker. God I hate him.

And if I come up positive for anything that's just more divorce ammo.

I'm about to throw up. I'm ignoring this freaking elephant in the living room and I need to just get my ass off the computer and call the damn doctor.

GOD I FUCKING DESPISE THIS BASTARD!!!!

((((Easy))))

Is your D still in the works.

Recently soliciting prostitutes???

You seem to have had enough from this creep.

You need some clean air so that you can breath again!!!

In the State of Missouri they want a freaking HUGE financial statement, we're talking VIN's and everything.

I've been putting it together when he isn't around and I'm not working. He's home all day so I can't really do it then, I work evenings so I can't do it then.

I've already moved some financial records out of the house and got rubbermaid tubs today to move more out.

48 days.