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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 10:06 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6500595
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hard_yards ( Member #23549) posted at 4:17 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013

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I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

posts: 1383   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2009
id 6509389
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HurtButHopeful? ( Member #25144) posted at 6:27 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013

Bumping for maddmurph.

Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

posts: 1735   ·   registered: Aug. 12th, 2009
id 6519988
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Blackhair ( Member #39451) posted at 9:41 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013

Awesome!

M: 10 years both late 40s.
3 Children
DDay: April 2013
Legally separated on Oct 2013.
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

posts: 203   ·   registered: Jun. 5th, 2013   ·   location: Canada
id 6520759
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 5:46 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 6528507
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Drowninginitall ( Member #40968) posted at 6:42 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

Thank you! I am saving this so that I can remind myself and I will one day send it to my H.

BW 44
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16

posts: 280   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2013
id 6528582
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purplejacket4 ( Member #34262) posted at 7:47 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2013

Bump

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

posts: 3013   ·   registered: Dec. 20th, 2011   ·   location: Here
id 6531895
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Jrazz ( Member #31349) posted at 12:00 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6533501
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 5:22 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 6535634
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 4:18 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013

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BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6549329
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Skan ( Member #35812) posted at 7:07 PM on Wednesday, November 6th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 6552481
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 12:47 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6552937
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torn2bits ( Member #28376) posted at 3:12 PM on Saturday, November 9th, 2013

This is one of my favorites.

Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted

posts: 1281   ·   registered: Apr. 26th, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
id 6555761
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purplejacket4 ( Member #34262) posted at 4:03 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013

bump

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

posts: 3013   ·   registered: Dec. 20th, 2011   ·   location: Here
id 6561637
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catatonic ( Member #40758) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013

BUMP

posts: 116   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2013
id 6561819
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Jpapageorge ( Member #31800) posted at 2:43 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2013

bump

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6571974
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tushnurse ( Member #21101) posted at 5:29 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2013

bumping for newbies

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 18918   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 6574048
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Simple ( Member #18814) posted at 12:31 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007-

posts: 942   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6583250
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lordhasaplan? ( Member #30079) posted at 2:36 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013

bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6585192
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