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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 11:53 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
No,there's a guideline about those kind of stories. TR 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
SoHappyNow ( member #8923) posted at 8:40 PM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
I am also female and I didn't switch teams either.
Edited to say this: I was attempting to be funny and lighthearted with my comment about the bat. Since my joke fell flat, and even offended, I removed the comment here and I sincerely apologize!
[This message edited by hit-by-a-train at 8:38 AM, April 18th (Thursday)]
In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14
JessicaFL127 ( member #26864) posted at 4:45 AM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
*Sigh.* 
[This message edited by JessicaFL127 at 10:45 PM, April 17th (Wednesday)]
BW,35
divorced for 10 years
Happily remarried to a much better choice.:D
mom to two awesome boys,14 and 13
And now to a beautiful baby girl, 1 <3
"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you
I.will.survive ( member #34677) posted at 11:32 AM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
I love the er "bat" that the gentleman who helped me step down from the bus swings!
Woohoo!
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 11:51 AM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Wow....tmi 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
newnormal ( member #21925) posted at 12:49 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
I had to go back a few pages to find the bus. Did we lose the drivers?
I'd like to book a seat in advance please. Filing soon, have been on the bus for 3 months now. Tmi alert: Vj is one happy camper ever since then. My state is a 60 day to D, so can I be an official bus rider by then? Please, pretty please?
BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07
Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 2:38 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Bumping for some of our newer NBers. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 2:54 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Just over ten months for me. You'd think they would have installed some more comfortable seats in this thing.
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 3:03 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Looked back to page 5 and found my first post on this thread. I'm now at the two-year mark. Damn.
At least D has been filed. I restocked the cooler ... anyone want a margarita? Come on back, rocks and salt, I assume?
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 3:38 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I'm with hopeless, the seats are getting uncomfortable after 11 and 1/2 months. ugh. I'd love a marg, heartbroken. At least I still have alcohol! Thanks.
Where is the bus heading now? I think we were in Australia last time I looked out the window...
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 3:38 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Ah; you novices I may not be the driver, but I'm at least the conductor. I've lost track of how long it's been, but it was definitely pre-2006 when I hopped on. I wasn't even an SI member then... 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
missherlots ( member #30591) posted at 4:19 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Polo,
4 months and counting. I will be here for while. I need to take the time to regroup and get a clean and healthy mind.
Pain and suffering is part of life, but I choose to feel love and compassion for all people excluding no one.
foreverempty ( member #34426) posted at 8:56 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I'm hoping to hop back on soon.
Need to stay a bit longer next time I think.
Anyone want me to pick anything up for them on my way back? Wine, cakes, biscuits etc....?
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 4:24 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
2 years for me.
Almost to the day.
My last experience was HB so 
Don't really think that counts.
I may ride the bus as long as Sad.
Don't really see myself dipping my toe in anytime soon.
Nope.
I'm going to install my own Lazy Boy chair in here since the seats are not too comfy.
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 5:01 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Pick up some cookies and wine please. Arbor Mist Blackberry Merlot (the LARGE bottle) preferably.
25 months but who's counting
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
woundedwidow ( member #36869) posted at 5:31 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
If I told y'all how long I've been on the bus, your eyes would fall out onto your laptops! My GYN and I even joke about my "reborn" virgin status. 
Be careful what you wish for the most - you may get it.
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 6:26 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Anyone want me to pick anything up for them on my way back? Wine, cakes, biscuits etc....?
Yes, please and thank you. In fact, I think it may be time for a little fiesta to wake up the napping folks in the back.
Driver - we need a party spot!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 6:37 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I think I am going to settle into my seat and enjoy the view for awhile.
Pass the chocolate, please.
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 6:47 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Too freaking long! I need a skateboard or something.
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
SoHappyNow ( member #8923) posted at 7:49 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
My man was on the bus for 11 years and I was on for almost 7 myself. A message of hope: the pieces parts still function well even after long disuse and even past 61 years of age. 
[This message edited by hit-by-a-train at 1:49 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]
In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14
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