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kchip ( member #36365) posted at 12:30 AM on Thursday, September 13th, 2012
DTTC,
Hang in there man ((DTTC)).
These goddam WWs really piss me off. So fucking selfish. So stupid. Immature. ughh.
Me: BH (42)
2 boys, age 10/7
D Day: July 15, 2012
Status: DIVORCING
You know that movie, Sleeping With the Enemy? Well I am Julia Roberts in that one......sighhhh
"When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change"
Twitchy ( member #25393) posted at 2:10 AM on Friday, September 14th, 2012
Be careful of the friends. They may have been sent by her to check on you and gather info. I'd politely decline if they want to stop by again.
BH(me)-57, FWW-Past,D-Day #1 - Oct 2007 - On-Line EA leading to a failed rendez-vous. D-Day #2 - Nov 2008 - In person EA caught early.
Away you will go, sailing in a race among the ruins.If you plan to face tomorrow, do it soon. Gordon Li
Dadtryingtocope (original poster member #36726) posted at 3:40 AM on Saturday, September 15th, 2012
Thanks again all. Well everything has turned ugly. I handed her papers stating I want full custody. So now the pissing match begins. I have been home with kids every night while she will come home help put them to bed then run over to the OMs house and come back at like 5 am to help with school. I just document everything. Everything is on lock down for both of us. My computer, her computer. I filed for divorce today so the paperwork is moving along. I asked her to help me move it along so I can be free. She apparently is looking for an apartment. My ride her on the Just Found Out area is over my new friends. I'm moving my stuff over to the divorce forum. Catch me there some time. Hopefully many of you will fare better than I did. I lost this battle and someday she will realize - so did she. Thanks to all of you that posted and helped me.
BH me 47
WW her 39
DDay 8-17-12
2 kids (13, 10)
Filed for D 9/14/12
Divorced 4/17/13
She - engaged 5/13 married 9/13
minamoto ( new member #32996) posted at 2:06 AM on Sunday, September 16th, 2012
Sorry man.
You're doing the right thing though. See her for what she truly has become. Her karma and OM's karma are now in the toilet.
One day, if she has any semblance of humanity or compassion she will regret her actions.
You will have moved on by then, likely finding someone with more class and integrity in the process.
Stand tall.
Long Gone ( member #32587) posted at 1:38 AM on Monday, September 17th, 2012
DTTC....
yeah....sometimes they never make it out "alive"...
Sounds 100% batschitt to me....she will wake up one day and melt down...
kchip ( member #36365) posted at 10:23 AM on Monday, September 17th, 2012
Yeah Long Gone, I believe that will happen one day too. These WW's - at some point will have it all backup on them and 'wake up' and realize just how selfish and hurtful they have acted. Horrible selfishness. How could they live with it?
Me: BH (42)
2 boys, age 10/7
D Day: July 15, 2012
Status: DIVORCING
You know that movie, Sleeping With the Enemy? Well I am Julia Roberts in that one......sighhhh
"When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change"
Dadtryingtocope (original poster member #36726) posted at 4:48 PM on Tuesday, September 18th, 2012
Thanks my dudes. Yes Karma is a real bitch and it has no deadline. So there will be a wakeup call some day. I'm posting up over on the big D forum now but will check back in here from time to time to see what is up and maybe I can offer some advice to someone else struggling.
The roller coaster continues to roll for me but each day can be a little better. Sometime soon I hope to start meeting new people at least to have someone to talk to, someone new to get to know and you never know where things will go. Plus it will help me heal and move on.
BH me 47
WW her 39
DDay 8-17-12
2 kids (13, 10)
Filed for D 9/14/12
Divorced 4/17/13
She - engaged 5/13 married 9/13
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