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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 4:16 PM on Monday, October 28th, 2013
(((AAS)))
You can do this.
Strength coming your way!!!
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 7:16 PM on Monday, October 28th, 2013
I suppose I'm asking you guys to be on the forum providing me with support and distraction for what I imagine will be a long day from 10am.
You got it. I'll be able to be here from about 12 noon (hopefully) - with my fingers and toes crossed. I so hope this goes your way allatsea.
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
Blobette ( member #36519) posted at 7:21 PM on Monday, October 28th, 2013
All 40K+ of us will be rooting you on! We're all here for you!
BS (me): 51
WS: 52
Married: 27 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R
Abbondad ( member #37898) posted at 12:04 AM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
I am a bunch of hours behind you over here in the States, but I will be checking in for updates.
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 9:03 AM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
You're only four hours ahead here on the East Coast--we've got your back!
You've got this.
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
cantbelieve ( member #22028) posted at 3:23 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
AAS
We are here for you. If you find yourself being overwhelmed, just think of all of us sitting behind you, supporting you.
Maybe even print some of these comments and have them in front of you to keep you strong.
Be STRONG, you are fighting for your boys!!!
((AAS))
Me: BS (61)
Him: WS (61)
LTA 4 years with co-worker
DS(30)
DD(26)
DD(23)
Married 32 years
D-day1 5/08
D-day2 11/08
Status: 6 yrs and wondering if I'll ever be truly happy again
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 3:31 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
saying prayers and sending strength for tomorrow. I'll keep my eyes open for any updates, just know that we will be there in spirit.
treat yourself well today, get extra sleep if possible. if you are at all religious, a little pop into the church may not hurt.
one last thing!
FTB!
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
Swims ( member #30992) posted at 3:34 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Sending strength to you Allatsea for tomorrow's coutr appearance. Conduct yourself as you have shown to us, with dignity, strength, and reason. Make sure you go to court looking your very best and that will give you added confidence. And hopefully for you, your CSTBXWW will start spewing her irrational nonsense and you can then swiftly and calmly refute her. Hugs and strength to you, AAS!
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 5:24 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
I am sending you the most powerful thing of all, SI mojo. SI mojo works. It has worked in many situations here. We will all be here sending prayers, strength, SI mojo whatever we've got to you. Know that your 41,000 friends here will be thinking of you.
If you are at court waiting around and feeling anxious say to yourself over and over again:
SI mojo. SI mojo. SI MOJO! 
eta: best to say it in your head, though, AAS. Don't want them to hear you muttering "SI mojo" like it is some kind of voodoo curse. They may think they can put a "C" in front of your name, too.
[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 11:27 AM, October 29th (Tuesday)]
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Secrets Kept ( member #40630) posted at 5:44 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Hey there AAS,
I am on East coast time so you are only 4 hours ahead.
I sit in my own quiet little office so will stay on SI for you in case you need to chat or vent during court.
Best of luck to you. Will be thinking about ya constantly.
"All this time I was finding myself & I didn't know I was lost"
Truly ( member #40715) posted at 8:14 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Hey AAS,
On the far side of the world the sun is already up on the most beautiful morning, sending you light and strength today.
May your dignity, pride and humanity shine through for all to see.
(((hugs)))Truly x
There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:43 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Mojo Mojo MOjo heading your way.
Karma karma karma heading CSTBXW way. I hope the big old bus pulls right up and swoops her away tomorrow.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 9:09 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Holding you and your children in my prayers.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:26 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Sending you strength, mojo and hugs for tomorrow!!
We've got your back AAS.
and FTB!!!!! 
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 3:38 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Good luck in court.....
Check in with your solicitor about this pregnancy issue. It has the potential to bring the divorce proceedings to a screeching halt.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 9:13 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
You are not alone. A lot of people are thinking of you today and hoping for the best outcome. Stay calm.
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
OptimisticWife ( member #36587) posted at 9:15 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Good luck AAS! Hope you leave court today feeling some sense of relief.
fadedrainbow ( member #9280) posted at 9:30 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
I'll be thinking about you today and praying for all to be well. (((((AAS)))))
me: FBW D-Day May 2005 divorced December 2009
openedupmyeyes ( member #27871) posted at 10:36 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
((((All at sea)))) positive mojo!!!!
Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
Swims ( member #30992) posted at 11:29 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Thinking of you ((AAS)) and sending strength!
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