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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 8:09 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
In the first portion of my adult life, I was a medical lab tech in the USAF.
I went to school and started a career in the opposite direction.
I've been an accountant for the last 15+ years.
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 8:13 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I was a commercial insurance underwriter for many years; then I worked for a government contractor on Native American reservations; then I managed a nonprofit social service and crisis intervention call center; then I managed an eco-tourism company... and now...
I work for the government of Canada in the U.S. (but I'm not a spy...
)
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 8:15 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I am a special education teacher... I currently teach Middle School (6th -8th) Language Arts at a school for students with Emotional/Behavioral Disabilities.
What that actually means is I duck chairs and profanity thrown at me all day long while trying to make surly pre-teens and teens love literature.
I have in the past worked at the Front Desk of a WDW Resort. Worked Customer Service at a large (now defunct) retail department store and done telephone customer support. I was also a paralegal doing real estate closings.
But I was born to be a teacher and it's the job I love the most.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 8:15 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
t/j
You don't work. You just smoke cigars all day
LD used to work on Wall Street and when the kids went to work with him he used to let them play games on the computers. When people would ask them what their dad does, they'd say, "He plays computer games all day."
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 8:15 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
NL, I always look at government jobs website and dream of working for them. That's awesome!
h0peless, that's an awful lot of positions for a principal.
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 8:18 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I work for the government of Canada in the U.S. (but I'm not a spy... )
Be careful, Sad. NL works for the government
What that actually means is I duck chairs and profanity thrown at me all day long while trying to make surly pre-teens and teens love literature.
I hope you get hazard pay, jrc.
When people would ask them what their dad does, they'd say, "He plays computer games all day."
That's hilarious!
[This message edited by simplydevastated at 2:19 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 8:22 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I hope you get hazard pay, jrc.
Nope... in fact I make what any teacher in the district makes with my level of experience and education. And we just got our first raise in 6 years.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 8:23 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I like this!! We are a very interesting group!
I likely have one of the toughest and BEST jobs here. I am a retiree specializing in travel and making life enjoyable for me (after all this crap hit, I certainly deserve it!!).
My part-time jobs are as an awesome Mom and Gramma, going to games, concerts, school events, great movies (especially 3D ones
), family dinners and get-togethers, etc.; baker, advice dispenser, sometime babysitter; awesome friend to many people I do things with; house re-decorator, general contractor for repairs and improvements; and the one I like the least - ATM!
TattoodChinaDoll, I wondered about this:
Besides private lessons, I have taught the children classes (birth - 6),
What do you teach them at birth? Is this music related?
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 8:25 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
thebighurt, I like that! Maybe instead of saying I'm unemployed, I should start saying I'm a retiree
jrc, with what you have to go through, you should get more money. Holy Cow!
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Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 8:27 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Currently, I am a special ed teacher...also teach remedial math at a local community college...also coach a high school CC team. Oh yeah, and I do that mom thing too.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
TattoodChinaDoll ( member #34602) posted at 8:33 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
For the babies it was a mommy and me type of class. Lots of rocking and movement. Feeling the beat and the different qualties like staccato and legato. Giving things musical names. It went up to 18 months so the older kids could actually hold rhythm sticks and bells.
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
HUFI-PUFI ( member #25460) posted at 8:41 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Hmmmm … well, if we started off listing the different jobs from then to now, it would include Marine Engineering in the RCN, encyclopedia salesman, security guard/consultant and then a stock person in a hardware store. Eventually I became a jackleg raise miner for a few years and moved into being a heavy equipment mobile mechanic. I then jumped to being a maintenance supervisor at a variety of gold, salt, silver, uranium and copper mines before moving into the forestry sawmill line for a bit before my latest gig, maintenance at a lime plant. Sheeee… I feel tired just writing it out!
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 8:57 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Our kids say "You don't work. You just smoke cigars all day"
My children have a difficult time sympathizing with my long hours when they know the "night shift" I'm working includes the finest dining in a 50 mile radius. LOL
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 9:01 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Fun and Games contributor.
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Jennifer99 ( member #39551) posted at 9:03 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I'm a Human Resource Manager.
simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 9:13 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Fun and Games contributor.
And SI wise-guy extraordinaire
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 9:21 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I'm a stay at home, homeschooling mom. This Fall will be the first time I attempt to teach both kids, as DS is "officially" starting PreK. Dunno if we'll survive.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 9:27 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
I'm in Risk Management - business continuity/disaster recovery stuff. Fascinating. No - really; riveting stuff.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 9:30 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Independent Petroleum Geologist/Engineer...
After having worked at an independent oil company for 7 years after college I started up 4 different oil companies, built them up and sold them... Started consulting as a part time thing to stay busy then had enough clients to make it fun...
So, all you energy hungry Americans... I'm one of the people that quench your thirst...
WB
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
stroppy_wanadoo ( member #11224) posted at 9:32 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013
Media relations for nuclear, coal, gas and wind power generating facilities. No matter which way I turn, I'm making someone angry.
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