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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 8:29 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
Sending prayers and good thoughts
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 8:50 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 9:33 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:48 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
((((NIK & family))))
Thinking of you all, sending you peace, love and strength.
((((more hugs))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 10:18 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 10:19 PM on Monday, November 11th, 2013
foxglove ( member #21791) posted at 12:55 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
(((NIK)))
Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Me (BS) 57
XH (WS)
Married 21 years
Divorced 2/19/07
Two grown sons
Remarried 9/18
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:00 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 1:43 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
(((NIK, Mom, Dad and family))))
NIK, My Mom was in hospice too----so I really know how you feel. My thoughts & prayers are with you. Sending you strength.
[This message edited by mchercheur at 8:02 PM, November 11th (Monday)]
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 3:33 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
((((NIK)))) 
Failure is success if we learn from it.
leapyearbaby ( member #24902) posted at 3:43 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
I am so sorry. It is so tough.
Since my H's unexpected death last month, we have finally gotten around to writing our own wills, POA and End of Life care plans....decades late.
As I was writing them, I am imagining putting my daughters in the position of making that kind of decision. It's really hard.....
me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:51 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 3:55 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
Thank you, everyone. I really appreciate it.
leapyear - I am so very sorry for your loss. ((((hugs))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 6:14 AM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
((((NIK and family))))
Prayers to you all NIK, what a difficult time.
Bless you all.
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 2:45 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
(((NIK & family)))
Prayers for you all.
Also, (((leapyearbaby))).
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:46 PM on Tuesday, November 12th, 2013
Sending prayers and peace.
Hugs
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:37 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013
How are you holding up, NIK?
I know how hard these days are for you. Praying peace and comfort for everyone.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 7:52 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013
(((((Nik & Dad & Mom))))) I am so sorry for the pain you all are going through...
My thoughts and prayers are with you all...
God is watching and helping.
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 2:17 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
I want to thank you all for the amazing support you've given me. My mom passed away this afternoon. She went very peacefully, with my father holding her hand and thanking her for the life and family they built together.
My mom was a remarkable person - a teacher by calling, a compassionate activist, and a natural leader. She left an indelible mark on all who were fortunate enough to know her.
“It's so much darker when a light goes out than it would have been if it had never shone.”
― John Steinbeck, The Winter of Our Discontent
The world is darker tonight.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:18 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
(((((Nik)))))
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm keeping you in my heart and thoughts.
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