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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:46 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
(((NIK and family)))
So sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts through this rough time.
Peaches2013 ( member #40852) posted at 4:00 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
((NIK))
I am so sorry for your loss.
Me: BS
Him: WH ONS/short EA
Married 11 years
Together 15 years
2 children
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 4:15 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
I'm so sorry. But glad she is now at peace. Remember the good times.
You will always carry her in your heart.
(((((NIK)))))
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 4:26 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
I'm so very sorry for your loss. 
(((((((NIK and Family))))))
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 4:30 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
I'm so very sorry for your loss. 
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 4:41 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 4:41 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 4:43 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 4:44 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
(((NIK and family)))
Your mom sounds like an amazing woman. I know she will be greatly missed. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss.
As always, prayers.
Fireball72 ( member #20152) posted at 4:46 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
My condolences on your loss. She sounded like a wonderful person.
Keeping you and yours in our thoughts. (((hugs)))
BS (me):44 (now 52) WS (him):42 (now 50)Married 3.5 years, together 5.5 D-Day #1 - 2/10/16 #2 - 2/20/16 #3 - 5/27/16 Divorced 6/12/17 One daughter, 9, the light of my life. Finally happy.
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 5:11 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
NIK, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad your mom is not suffering anymore, but your dad and the rest of your family have the hard part now. You'll be in my prayers.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 6:17 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 7:23 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
((((NIK)))))
Sounds like she had a very peaceful passing. How nice for your dad.
Your Stienbeck quote brought a tear to my, when a close friend passed it was one used at his wake.
Peace, and strength be with you.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:41 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
You and your family are in my thoughts. Plain song isn't available right now, but if she were, she'd join me in saying we're so sorry for your loss.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 9:56 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 10:51 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
(((NIK and family)))
I'm so sorry for your loss. Even knowing that she was preparing to "Go Home" it is still a painful and jarring loss.
Holding you in my thoughts.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 12:03 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 12:17 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 12:20 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 12:23 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
I am so sad for you, NIK. Losing a parent makes us feel disconnected from the universe. Take care of yourself in the days ahead. Hugs.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
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