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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 2:20 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
((((nik))))
I signed in out of lurkdom to offer my condolences.
Your Mom sounded like a really cool lady.
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:21 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
Oh honey, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
(((Hugs)))
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 2:23 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
(((NIK))) I'm sorry for your loss.
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 2:58 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
Holding you and your family in the *LIGHT*-SK
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:14 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
I am sorry for your loss. Saying prayers for you and your family.
Hugs,
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:25 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:31 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
((((NIK and family)))). I'm so sorry for this huge loss.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:32 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
I'm sorry, WT. I'm here for you anytime.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 4:33 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 4:39 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss.
((((NIK))))
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:49 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
(((Empress and family)))
Love you, honey.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
click4it ( member #209) posted at 4:51 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
Oh NIK.... 
I know you have "prepared" for this, but I am SO sorry for the loss. So, very sorry. I am sending so much warmth, hugs and prayers your way tonight. Please know if there is anything I can do, I'm here. (((((((((((((NIK and family)))))))))))))))))
Love,
Click
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 5:15 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
((((HUGS)))))
I'm so sorry. I wish I could do something to help you right now.
((((MORE HUGS))))
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:22 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
((((NIK)))) Keeping you close to my heart.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
openedupmyeyes ( member #27871) posted at 9:38 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
((((Nik & family))) you are in my thoughts and prayers. So sorry for your loss. 
Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:17 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
Rest assured she'll always be with you hon. (((NIK)))
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 2:22 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
(((((nik & family)))))
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Continued prayers for you all.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 2:24 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
(((NIK & Family)))
I'm so very sorry.
MH and I are sending you our love and prayers
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 2:39 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
((((nik)))
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 3:35 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
(((NIK)))
I'm sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
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