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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 3:49 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013

((((confused))))

Just saw this thread. My condolences and best wishes to you and your family.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 3:54 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013

Hugs.

{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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lostworld ( member #19197) posted at 5:29 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013

You are in my prayers, and I believe in miracles. Hugs.

Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married Over 30 years w/ grown kids
Dday 1: 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
R'd
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.

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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 8:26 PM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013

I'm so sorry.

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TattoodChinaDoll ( member #34602) posted at 12:03 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

(((((((((((((Confused))))))))))))))))

An extra big hug because you deserve it.

Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)

D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.

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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 12:38 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

you and your family are in my prayers. I'm so sorry to hear this.

sending strength and Mojo

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

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soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 1:10 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

(((Confused))))

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

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stronggirl72 ( member #37293) posted at 2:10 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

Oh, I am so, so sorry to hear this news. Sending gobs of strength for you and your family.

(((confused)))

"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!

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Kap12 ( member #41759) posted at 3:01 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

Prayers coming your way. My mother is battling breast cancer and we don't have the perfect mother/daughter relationship but I can say that this tragic situation has made me realize I need to make things better. Spend as much time with your mom and enjoy the moments be in the moments all other life issues will be here when you have the time. Life is precious. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

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jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 3:12 AM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

My mom died of lung cancer 7+ years ago. Spend all the time with her you can and say what you want and need to say. Sending you good thoughts

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 4:47 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013

((((confused)))) I'm so sorry

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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Edie ( member #26133) posted at 11:53 PM on Wednesday, December 25th, 2013

(((Confused))) thinking of you and your mum.

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