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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 12:39 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
(((Jana))) & (((TCD)))
I am so sorry... 
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
TattoodChinaDoll ( member #34602) posted at 12:47 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Jana - how are you feeling otherwise? Have you had blood work?
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:53 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:59 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
(((((Jana)))))
(((((TCD)))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:01 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
((((Jana)))) ((((TCD))))
Sending you strength, and hope.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 1:03 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
I had bloodwork on the 27th, my numbers were perfect. My progesterone was 2x as high as it was with my daughter. I actually had symptoms with this one, unlike my first 2 first trimesters. I feel pregnant, you know? No spotting, cramping.
hitbyatruck ( member #23769) posted at 1:23 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Oh Jana,
I'm sorry.
I miscarried on Christmas day 1999, my first. I got pregnant again and my due date was Christmas 2000. My beautiful baby girl was born a little early but healthy.
(((JANA)))
Married 1998. 2 kids. First discovery 3/2009. Multiple affairs, porn addiction. one failed attempt at R. Nested for over a year. Divorce final 8/2015. XH is now married. I am engaged!
Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 1:41 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
I'm so sorry Jana and TCD.
BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12
Former 80s Icon wishful thinking
Hurtm ( member #41102) posted at 2:02 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Me: 36 and awesome (now 38)
Him: 37 and a douche (otherwise known as DB)
DD day October 17th (my birthday, lucky me)
Married 9 years, together 14
DS 8, DD 5
Finally officially divorced after almost 4 years
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 2:29 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 2:42 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
(((((((((Jana)))))))))
(((((((((TCD)))))))))
kiki1 ( member #37184) posted at 3:04 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Jana (my daughters name) and TCD,
Many hugs to both of you.
You'll both be in my prayers tonight.
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 3:08 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Thank you guys. Now that I'm alone & it's quiet (DH & DD are both sleeping), the disappointment is really heavy.
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 3:12 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
I just went back and read your original post...there is Still hope. I know you don't want to get your hopes up, but you don't know for sure yet. I'm going to think positive for you. 
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 3:16 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
I appreciate any positive thoughts. I just can't afford to go there myself but I deeply appreciate them from others.
positively4thst ( member #23998) posted at 3:19 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Jana,
You have to think positive until you know otherwise. These dates are not a science, even when they should be! You are still early on and it is entirely possible the heartbeat is there but they haven't heard it for whatever reasons, including the position of the baby! Please don't give up hope based upon past experience. Think positive, visualize a healthy baby, and don't give up! Think of all the women who give birth and didn't know they were pregnant!! I know you don't want to get your hopes up because of your past experience, but you can't give up hope solely based upon that. My thoughts are with you.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 3:54 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Sending you big positive thoughts. Until the doctor tells you otherwise, we can hang on to some hope that things are going to be ok.
HUGE hugs right through the monitor.
(((JG)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:01 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
I'm sorry that your heart is so heavy tonight. Is it okay if I carry a little bit of hope in mine for you? ((((HUGS)))
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
myowndystopia ( member #41340) posted at 4:10 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Sending strength to you both. A harsh reminder that creation is truly a miracle. Stay strong.
Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)
"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele
avicarswife ( member #35799) posted at 4:23 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
(((Jana))) and (((TCD)))
Thinking of you guys and sending lots of love.
On D-day:BS 46 (me)WH 50
Toasted22M 26 yrs,3 kids (16-24) at discovery. D-Days 2012 23-24 May + TT D-Day 2013 12 Apr
mOW #1 EA yrs PA Feb 2009-end 2011
mOW #2 EA months PA 4 mths 2010
mOW#3 PA once
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