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Gunsmith ( new member #42761) posted at 9:39 PM on Sunday, May 11th, 2014
Mine is my hobby....would love to make a living out of it one day. 
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 11:20 PM on Sunday, May 11th, 2014
Because I played Nikola Tesla to ex-shat's Thomas Edison.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 1:50 AM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
Mine are my initials plus a year that is actually more important to FWSO than myself...
I guess I wasn't thinking clearly... but since we've R'd I guess it's ok.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
trumanshow ( member #25624) posted at 1:44 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
The Jim Carrey movie-my life was a lie and I was oblivious
remarried 11-15-15
Her prize is a man who ran out on his wife and children. His is a woman who is too stupid to understand that she is not special, she is simply there.
idiot85 ( member #38934) posted at 7:01 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
Mine's because I kept messing up registering- ended up having to send an email like "this this and this are all me because i thought it didn't work so registered again then again and again blah blah blah" what an idiot and 85 because that's how old I am...29 not 85. Idiot fits
BH-32 (me)
WW-31
Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:38 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
Mine was what I did for a living at the time. It was really my safe place, and my respite from the whole total obsession of my time and energy. Without it I lacked the ability to stand up on my own, and walk away if I needed to.
Plus it makes people smile a bit.
I am no longer a nurse of tushes, but spend my days helping to get people the resources they need, and to help them learn how to be healthier, and take better care of themselves. I do think this experience allows me to be more empathetic, and empowering at the same time.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:49 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
I registered on a site with an ID that bears absolutely no relation to my real name - 'soon'. I wanted the pain to be over soon.
They trashed SI on that site because SI treats WSes as human beings. I didn't see how I could R unless I saw my W as a human being, so I checked out SI and liked what I found.
I became 'soon on si' - 'sisoon' is the easiest way to say that....
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Wayflost ( member #41583) posted at 8:52 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
Mine is because I immediately recognized that I am: Way F***ing Lost.
Pretty much sums me up. I'm lost.
"Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly."
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 9:11 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
Mine relates to diving, which is a hobby I have enjoyed. I didn't want anything pain or mom related. I wanted something about ME and this reminds me that sometimes the best strategy is just to take a breath.
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
LA44 ( member #38384) posted at 9:14 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
Ahh, I was wondering how you came up with your name, Rebreather. Mine is my first/middle initial and my age when I joined. That simple.
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 9:22 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
Nickname plus had to pick a number or something since deena itself was taken. (Hi deena)...and on a side note, I love the name SisterMilkshake. It just sounds cool.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
EZ4U ( new member #37703) posted at 9:54 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
EZ4U. Cause it was easy for him to cut and run.. Ex's life not 2EZ no more.
"I shall Forgive and Forget.
Forgive myself for being stupid and Forget about you."
1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 10:06 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
1Faith came from my looking for grace and courage to get through the mess that my FWH and the OW created.
I was so lost at times the only thing I could do to get through the day was give it up to God.
Thankfully He was always there just like my SI friends.
Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 10:17 PM on Monday, May 12th, 2014
It's my love experience in 8 letters(though not limited to). Five for five for real. Five long term relationships, five cheating women. Need a new picker. 
Wayflost, new respect for you. I read waif lost. Completely different take.
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 12:01 AM on Tuesday, May 13th, 2014
Jai is my nickname and H often refers to me as "The Misses" so I just put them together and voila! MissesJai 
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
TheRealDeal ( member #39560) posted at 12:13 PM on Tuesday, May 13th, 2014
On Dday3 I told fWS that he had no idea what he was losing in me, that I was the-real-deal and he'd only realize it when I was gone.
Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to
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