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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 8:23 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2014
I think some are ok with it, but others with boundary issues should NEVER do this. It can lead to x, y, and z... If my WS would go to one now, that's it buddy. If we survive it will be with extremely FIRM boundaries.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
3yrwait ( member #29907) posted at 10:04 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2014
Someone said it is a slippery slope. I can attest to that as a Mad Hatter.
I didn't plan for anything to happen, feeling sorry for myself and selfish, drinking, this girl is feigning interest, I pay her to feign more interest, eventually she's unzipping my pants, I do nothing to stop it, and then.... I made some really bad choices and put myself in dangerous situation.
Other times I've been to strip clubs and I find myself watching a game on the TVs.
If a cheater makes the Betrayed uncomfortable by going to a strip club, s/he shouldn't go. Oddly, I don't feel threatened by WW going to a male strip club, so I don't really care if she went. Her betrayal had nothing to do with a club.
Me: BH (early 50s)Her: WW (early 50s)Married 25 years1 daughter, under 10DDay July 2007
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