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brokengirl37 ( member #42530) posted at 1:03 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

((((((Angel)))))

My deepest sympathy for you and your family. Just absolutely heartbreaking. Strength and prayers for your family.

Me: 40
WH : 42
2 Boys Age 12, 16
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker

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LeftBehind08 ( member #38705) posted at 1:28 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy. I cannot begin to express my heartbreak for you. Sending you and your family prayers

Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt

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annb ( member #22386) posted at 1:45 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Angel, I am so so sorry. I cannot imagine the heartbreak you are feeling. No words, just hugs and prayers.

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Time Ticks On ( member #33772) posted at 2:13 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss.

FBW- 50
FWH-51
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27

What doesn't kill me, scars me.

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SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 2:33 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry. I cannot imagine your pain.

Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

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devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 2:40 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

((((Angel)))) I am so sorry for your loss. Please remember we are all here for you. ((((Hugs))))

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

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sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 3:26 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

There aren't words...but my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. ((((Angel)))) Sending you lots of strength.

You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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TooAloof ( member #12764) posted at 4:10 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

(Angel), so so sorry. Sending you strength

The Cure for Everything is Salt Water; Tears, Sweat, the Sea

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TooAloof ( member #12764) posted at 4:10 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

(Angel), so so sorry. Sending you strength

The Cure for Everything is Salt Water; Tears, Sweat, the Sea

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 4:18 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Angel, I don't even know what to say. This is beyond heartbreaking. I'm so sorry, but I'm glad you are looking for support groups to help you. Please keep posting. ((Hugs))

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 4:36 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

(((Angel)))

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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evephoebe1 ( member #36923) posted at 7:17 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

(((Angel)))

Me: Survivor! BS (47)
Him: WH (45)
2 awesome kids, 13 & 16

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CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 9:46 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Angel, I am so unutterably sorry for your loss. I am sending you peace and rest.

If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

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UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 11:56 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Such a loss is inconceivable. Take all the support this site can offer. I find it amazing and comforting that others can reach out and say they have been through the same thing and give you advice at this time of need.

Big warm hugs my dear Angel.

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 2:12 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

((((Angel))))

I'm so sorry.

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 2:14 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

I just saw this. Oh dear god, I am so so sorry. Oh sweetie, my heart goes out to you. Take care.


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 2:39 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

I am so, so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:16 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

(((((Angel))))))

I am so sorry. We would all help more if we could...the hugs are a paltry substitute.

Sit. Feast on your life.

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 Angel177 (original poster member #37274) posted at 5:42 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Thank you.

This week will be hard...viewing on Tuesday and funeral on Wednesday. I want to see him again. I want to see him looking peaceful. When I found him in his crib he looked horrible.....the mind movies of finding him plays over and over and over.

Me:BS
Him:WH
D-Day Sept. 14/12...R started Dec. 3/12
D-Day 2 Oct. 12/19 different OW
In limbo

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:46 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

I can't even imagine.

He is at peace now. I've been keeping you in my thoughts every day. We will be with you Tuesday and Wednesday in spirit. Sending love to you and your family.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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