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Thankfulness and Mindfulness - Gateway to Self Healing

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marionwendy ( member #41303) posted at 12:36 AM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

I'm thankful for:

1. My son who is a decent and moral young man.

2. My new baby granddaughter who is stunningly beautiful.

3. My unwavering strength, which I have always had.

4. My lake view from our house

5. My margarita machine on my kitchen counter, it's awesome on a hot sunny day after work to enjoy 1 or maybe 2!

BS-52
WS-53
Married-25
Together-25
Children-2

Life is not measured by the breaths we take
but by the moments that take our breath away.

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FixYou71 ( member #42654) posted at 5:16 AM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

Love reading everybody's lists!

1. Watching our 17 year old son play baseball

2. My two cocker spaniels who make me smile

3. Medication to treat my back pain so I can live life

4. A new lease on my marriage ♥

5. An hour without a thought about IT

BS:44
H: 50
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 22 and DS 18
Married 1993

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 Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 5:30 AM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

Love reading everybody's lists!

Me too.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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ShellyShell ( member #42662) posted at 5:42 AM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

Best thread ever!

1. My smart, funny, rambunctious, affectionate, kind hearted, sensitive son. He loves his mommy something fierce, and I love him right back.

2. My brainy, beautiful, ambitious, book loving, loyal, save-the-world daughter. She's absolutely going to make her mark one day. Best daughter ever and I love her too much.

3. Sentimental sappy movies that make me cry.

4. A renewed relationship with God! This probably should have been first.

5. Fried catfish! And bacon. :)

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hihn ( member #43986) posted at 5:44 AM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

I am thankful for reading what you all are thankful for. You all reminded me of those things in life that I love. Thank you everyone for ending my day with a smile on my face. Oh that felt good!

Me BS 58yo, Him WS 55yo, sex addict
DD#1 1/28/14 co-worker#1
DD#2 2/8/14 co-worker#2 9/13 - 4/14
DD#3 4/10/14 22+ anonymous sex OW
Full disclosure 7/30/14 30+ sex parteners,but is more likley 80+

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rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 12:37 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

1. I found my Starbucks card with $50 on it!

2. Get to see DS next week- it's been a year!

3. Got a great deal on shoes yesterday and they came in wide!

4. Decided to have a party at my house with all funny positive people.

5. Hubby and I both went to IC yesterday and HE initiated talking about how it went.

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devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 1:09 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

Late as usual, but I'm here now. You guys are the best and know how to brighten up someone's day.

I'm grateful for:

My WS working hard to make up for his wrongs

My children, they were and still are my rocks

My cat- who really loves my WS better, but stuck to me like glue when I needed her most

The smell of the pine in the air - it's the best smell in the world

Having the opportunity to walk this wacky, wonderful world. Life is truly wonderful in spite of everything.

And my 6th one (because I've missed a couple of days) all of you and how you stick by me through thick and thin and boost me up when I hurt and Stupid Picture Friday

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

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neverdidithink ( member #40568) posted at 2:09 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

today is a new day

coffee

coffee

coffee

coffee

BS, 57
M 13 years
second marriage, second WH
4 kids in their 20s

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 Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 6:42 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

7/10/2014

1. Stinky pug kisses

2. Almond milk

3. Sparkly earrings

4. My hilarious nephew

5. Super Mario Kart 8

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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Imissmyhusb ( member #42734) posted at 7:52 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

1. Good food (Guacamole - yum!)

2. Supportive friends & family (incl SI)

3. Time spent alone to reset my brain

4. The beauty of the sky esp rainbows and full moons

5. WH. This experience has brought issues to the surface to be resolved, and i will be a better person for it however the chips may fall

This is great

Multiple d-days and TT
3 kids
me - Gettg my life back, him - idk him any more
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I dont know why I stay. Need to figure it out

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soconfusednow ( member #40078) posted at 10:21 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

1. good weather

2. Hugs from H

3. Roof over my head

4. Food on my table

5. Modern plumbing

D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50's WH 50's
NC-several, last broken NC 7/2013 (?)
Married 30+ years, 2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 10:27 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

Love this... and you Razzie

1) INAB

2) My Boys

3) Retrouvaille

4) The love & support of my friends/family

5) Whole30

44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 10:29 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

1. friends who force me to do things I don't want to do

2. the cycling shoes I just bought. smh

3. friends who mail you cycle shorts to spare your girly bits

4. friends who text you asking why your lazy ass isn't at the gym

5. friends who text you saying "come hike with me tonight, I need rattlesnake bait"

Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 10:31 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

friends who text you saying "come hike with me tonight, I need rattlesnake bait"

now there's a true friend!

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Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 10:33 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

1) My son

2) Quiet

3) Books

4) My dad

5) Rain

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DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 10:39 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

1. My husband.

2. That I don't live by a clock or a schedule.

3. Animals, both inside and outside.

4. My health and everything that means.

5. New experiences.

Growing forward

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WinterBranch ( member #42671) posted at 10:42 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

1. My cat.

2. My other cat.

3. My other other cat.

4. My dog.

5. The relief I feel that I won't be lied to by the STBX again. He's gone.

Me: Woman.
Him: Con-man who's gone...divorced him and still at SI cuz I'm dustin' off my hands, folks...

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roseguide ( member #35697) posted at 3:17 AM on Friday, July 11th, 2014

1. My happy, healthy children

2. My beautiful grand-daughter

3. My amazing friends and my supportive siblings

4. My dogs

5 A job that pays well and allows me to travel to cool place I would otherwise not get to see.

In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of the things not meant for you. – Buddhist saying

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 Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 5:51 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014

Good Morning! (Well, it's still morning here... )

7/11/2014

Today I'm thankful for:

1. Squirrels - they are hilarious

2. LoZ

3. My awesome job

4. DD's happiness at her preschool

5. My sister who gets me even when she doesn't.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 6:17 PM on Friday, July 11th, 2014

Jumping on the bandwagon!

1. My parents and their continued good health and love

2. Long summer days

3. Good friendships to develop on those long summer days

4. The ability to be happy in the company of a new love interest, and the chance to start over

5. Finally getting my new phone up and working after a long saga!

Sit. Feast on your life.

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