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Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 3:51 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
So sorry for your loss (((NIK)))
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 4:02 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 6:16 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
I'm so very sorry for your loss, NIK.
You and your family are in my prayers.
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 6:20 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
Will it is so hard to lose a loved one, I hope you find that the joyful memories quickly overake the sad ones.
Holding you in the *****LIGHT****
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 6:25 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
Oh NIK, I'm so sorry.
Sending you love and prayers.
((((NIK))))
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 7:43 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
I'm so sorry Nik. I pray for you and family. 
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 8:15 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
(((((Empress and family)))))
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 8:25 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
I'm sorry, NIK. I wish this wasn't your reality, so close on the heels of your mom. I am sure you are hurting very much. Reach out to whomever, whenever, you need. Many blessings to you.
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
LeftBehind08 ( member #38705) posted at 8:28 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
with huge hugs and my sympathy for your loss
Please take care of yourself and your family. I am very sorry...
Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 10:37 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
((((NIK))))
I lost my father 7 years ago...it is a very painful thing. My thoughts are with you.
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
StillStanding1 ( member #40144) posted at 10:43 PM on Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014
My condolences to you and your family. What a beautiful legacy he left though. Your post brought tears to my eyes.
Wishing you comfort and strength.
Me: BS50s Him: WH50s
M 25 years - DD DS DS
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday - 2/13, S for 1 year, now R
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 1:31 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:06 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
No words. ((((((NIK))))))
Failure is success if we learn from it.
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 3:08 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
SweetheartVixen ( member #4956) posted at 3:17 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
(((((NIK))))) Im so sorry for your loss.
BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...
DD 6-14
dameia ( member #36072) posted at 3:22 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
(((NIK)))
It sounds like he was a wonderful man. I'm sorry for you loss and I will keep your family in my prayers.
Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
Time Ticks On ( member #33772) posted at 3:43 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss NIK. He sounds like he was a wonderful man and father. (hugs)
FBW- 50
FWH-51
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27
What doesn't kill me, scars me.
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 3:49 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 5:17 AM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
((((NIK))))) I'm sorry for your sadness and grief. So happy you were able to be there with him for his peaceful passing and for your memories of his love. I'm glad the staff supported and cared for him and you all so well.
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 1:24 PM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
((NIK))
I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope you're doing OK today.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
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