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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 8:03 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
I'm very, very sorry for your loss. 
(((NIK)))
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 8:10 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
I am so very sorry for your loss.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 8:14 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
(((NIK)))
Beautiful poem. So sorry for the loss of your father. May you have peace in the days to come.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 8:16 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
(((nik))) I'm so sorry for your loss.
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 8:17 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 8:18 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
(((NIK))) I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 8:21 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 8:30 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
My deepest condolences, NIK.
What a great legacy your parents have built.
(((((NIK & family)))))
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 8:30 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 8:37 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
Im so, so very sorry for your loss.
((((((((((((NIK))))))))))))
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:48 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
They'll always be with you. (((NIK)))
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 9:12 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
(((HUGS)))
My condolences to you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss. 
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 9:23 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Alyssamd24 ( member #39005) posted at 9:23 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
So sorry to hear of your loss.
Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you.....the thing you think you can't survive....its the thing that makes you better than you used to be.
LoveActually ( member #31030) posted at 9:28 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
I'm so so very sorry. What a beautiful poem it made me cry.
BS (Me) WS (Him) D-Day 5/29/09Married 15 yrs, together 20 yrs
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 9:31 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
(((((((NIK)))))))
I'm so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Pinkyxo ( member #43095) posted at 9:50 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
(((NIK))) I'm so sorry. May he rest in peace. He's with your Mom now and no longer suffering.
Hugs & prayers
One foot in front of the other!Member since 2004ish?Formerly ZooMa.
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 9:55 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
I'm so sorry, NIK. You've been through so much recently. Be good to yourself.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Myname ( member #23138) posted at 10:03 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
I'm so sorry.
(((())))
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 45
12-08-10: S
Divorced and moved on with my life.
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 10:04 PM on Monday, July 21st, 2014
(((NIK)))
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
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