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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 5:44 PM on Sunday, August 24th, 2014

Remember to set the boundary in a way he'll hear and in a way that is healthy and not codependent. Not "you may not overindulge," is to vague and it is YOUR rule. But "if you drink more than ______, I will take a cab home and you will sleep in the guestroom." It makes it his choice to make to bad choice. It may seem counterproductive, but in the end, this is all about his choices. Of course if it becomes a habitual drinking issues, the rules change.

Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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