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 TurnOtherCheek (original poster member #55194) posted at 3:43 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

Hahaha! OMG, holy freaking shit!!!! I just had to share because it's just too rich...

Moana Leasha, that dog shit picker-upper, c*&t, skittletitted piece of trash - I just can't even believe this...

She sent me a bill for one day of pet sitting services for failure/penalty to cancel contracted services within required time!!!!!!! It is showing as 'DELINQUENT and REQUIRING IMMEDIATE ATTENTION." Looks like both WH and I got the bill as her invoice to me says: CC: Mr.TOC (and for whatever reason she sent to his work address based on address she saw fit to include on her CC. Leads me to believe she included more info to him - pathetic letter or something equally repulsive and didn't want me to get his letter/invoice/plea for more sex and access to his wallet.)

This came through USPS and is delayed due to address change for me but she sent it sometime last week. I was just going through mail this morning and there it was - her business envelope - which just made my blood red hot. I was going to burn it before opening but I could tell it was not just promotional mail but looked like a bill.

I scanned and sent to WH and said, "if you pay this, not only will you be a divorced man, you'll be a DEAD divorced man!!!! Fuck you for being such an idiot! What a fucking mockery you made of it all. I had you pegged for someone who could distinguish class from trash!"

I have sent to my lawyer and asked her to send threatening letter demanding to cancel the invoice immediately and advise that next contact, whether business or otherwise, will constitute harassment and an RO request will be filed against her with an explanation on how that could impact her business. I also asked her to ensure Moana Leasha sends proof that invoice is canceled directly to my lawyer so I know she isn't taking this further and possibly going a collection/credit agency route.

Every expletive has crossed my mind and many across my tongue this morning.

Me: BW x 2 - 53
Ist XWH: Married over 17 years, DD and DS (mine)
2nd XH: Also 53, DS (his), 8 yrs together
OW: Pet sitter
D-Day: 9/11/16
Divorced in 60 seconds flat. http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=591733

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devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 3:50 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

I'm sorry that you got this. Some people are just mind-boggling.

She really doesn't take well to being ignored, does she?

Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.

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susieque2 ( member #49694) posted at 4:06 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

Wow!!

She reminds me of those little gnats you see around a dog's penis -- my H calls them 'dog pecker gnats' --- very appropriate here!

Annoying ---- perhaps she should rethink her career choice although it sounds like she's really not qualified for anything more than a 'Pooper Scooper' -------

Just keep breathing --- don't expend any energy on her feeble attempts to get attention.

We are all spiritual beings having a human experience!

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sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 4:11 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

The sheer gall of this low life is staggering. Talk about low class.

...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

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sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 4:16 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

Did you tell you wh how your lawyer responded to the demand? Because I worry if it came last week he could have already paid it...

...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

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atalosss ( member #47882) posted at 4:23 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

Ugh! My h's bunny boiler pulled this crap for a whole year. Get the cops involved if possible. She's not going away for a while 😬.

"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66

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HardyRose ( member #55069) posted at 4:34 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

Oh the crazy is strong in that one!

She isn't enjoying discovering that she doesn't matter is she?

So sorry she is adding extra drama to this horrible situation for you TOC.

If she is using her business as a way in how do you feel about the yelp review now?

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 TurnOtherCheek (original poster member #55194) posted at 4:38 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

sinsoffather:

Did you tell you wh how your lawyer responded to the demand? Because I worry if it came last week he could have already paid it...

STBXH is still in care facility. I think he's there another week at least. He isn't getting mail and certainly has not been to the office to pick up any. I'm pretty sure that was the first he saw of it.

Me: BW x 2 - 53
Ist XWH: Married over 17 years, DD and DS (mine)
2nd XH: Also 53, DS (his), 8 yrs together
OW: Pet sitter
D-Day: 9/11/16
Divorced in 60 seconds flat. http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=591733

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Hg65 ( member #49801) posted at 5:10 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

Bring her up in Yelp, enter in a scathing review about her being a whore, take screen shot and send it to her. Tell her this is what will be posted if she continues to harass you.

I am BW
Dday Oct 2013

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shareonhearts ( member #52869) posted at 7:41 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

Have your lawyer respond but don't you dare because this is just eating her ALIVE! She can't stand the fact that she has no power and can't even get a rise out of you. I just LOVE the fact that you have carried yourself with such grace and dignity.

I'm amazed at the level she goes to for contact. She is starving for it. She must be an attention whore in life.

Fool me once shame on me......Fool me twice shame on YOU!

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shareonhearts ( member #52869) posted at 7:43 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

Have your lawyer respond but don't you dare because this is just eating her ALIVE! She can't stand the fact that she has no power and can't even get a rise out of you. I just LOVE the fact that you have carried yourself with such grace and dignity.

I'm amazed at the level she goes to for contact. She is starving for it. She must be an attention whore in life.

Fool me once shame on me......Fool me twice shame on YOU!

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undertherug ( member #41580) posted at 8:54 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

And the hits just keep on coming.... I am totally aghast at this lower cretin's unmitigated gall. She screws her employer and breaks up his marriage and now she wants to be paid for it? There is a word for women like her. Glad you are taking the high road and letting your attorney handle it. Maybe if she takes you to small claims court you can share with the whole courtroom why she ain't getting shit from you. I hope your WH feels totally embarrassed by her behavior. And if you have any pet bunnies, please make sure you keep them inside.

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setecastronomy ( member #14398) posted at 9:03 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

She sent me a bill for one day of pet sitting services for failure/penalty to cancel contracted services within required time!

If allowed in your particular jurisdiction, counter-sue for "alienation of affection."

If not, let it go to court. Then your testimony as to termination of services for fucking your then-husband becomes public record via the court reporter's transcript.

Don't tell her ahead of time that this is the plan.

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setecastronomy ( member #14398) posted at 9:04 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

Bring her up in Yelp, enter in a scathing review about her being a whore, take screen shot and send it to her. Tell her this is what will be posted if she continues to harass you.

Could be construed as blackmail. Don't do that.

Just post a Yelp review without calling her a whore, but do mention that your ex-husband ended up having an affair with her while she was in your employ as a pet-sitter/dog-walker...

[This message edited by setecastronomy at 3:05 PM, November 13th (Sunday)]

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RubixCubed ( member #51615) posted at 9:10 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

AMAZING!

Ask your lawyer about your liabilities regarding a Yelp, Angies list,etc review based on fact.

I know you said you didn't want to mess with her, but think of all the innocent people you could save from dealing with this attention wh*re. If it was me I couldn't resist just to ruin her business ,which might keep her occupied enough trying to make a living that she wouldn't have time to fool with you any longer. She's either completely delusional or she's having a laugh at your expense,not realizing the joke could very well end up on her, quickly.

"But I'm trying, Ringo. I'm trying real hard to be the shepherd."

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Twitchy ( member #25393) posted at 9:31 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

I'm going to buck the system on this and suggest you pay it (unless it's a crazy, exorbitant amount.)

Not only pay it, but add a tip. After all she did help to remove a pesky parasite from your life.

Here's my logic. If you fight it, you keep her in your life. She gets to decide how much time and head space she occupies based on how much she's willing to fight you for the money. It'll take up more time and more money to fight it that you think if she's as crazy/vindictive as she seems (small claims court, collection agencies, etc)

If you pay it, you close another door to her. She can't get too you that way again. The tip is like slamming the door, too.

Not only that, but she just gave you permission to go full tilt on her professionally. Yelp and any other review sites are now fare game. That has to be worth something to you.

Remember, it's only slander if it's not true. If you post the proof along with the bad review, she has no leg to stand on to fight you back with.

[This message edited by Twitchy at 3:33 PM, November 13th (Sunday)]

BH(me)-57, FWW-Past,D-Day #1 - Oct 2007 - On-Line EA leading to a failed rendez-vous. D-Day #2 - Nov 2008 - In person EA caught early.

Away you will go, sailing in a race among the ruins.If you plan to face tomorrow, do it soon. Gordon Li

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Tearsoflove ( member #8271) posted at 1:35 AM on Monday, November 14th, 2016

Wow, this crazy bitch will do anything to stay relevant. You ignored her. He ignored her. Again, "desperation is a stinky cologne"~ Super Troopers.

But this kind of reminds me of the time I dropped my son off at a private day care but got a bad feeling on my way to work and my husband and I went back. The babysitter's car was gone so we knocked repeatedly on the door and no one answered. We could hear music. We opened the door and walked in to see the babysitter's roommate sitting at the dining room table with her back to the glass kitchen door and head phones on so loudly they could be heard from the front door. Behind her, through the glass door, we could see our 18 month old son and all the other children playing unattended by a swimming pool. We walked past her, picked up our son, and walked out.

The following week, we got a bill for a week's worth of care for giving "no notice". I told her to stick her bill up her ass so it could be where her head was.

Candy sounds about as intelligent as our former babysitter.

[This message edited by Tearsoflove at 7:41 PM, November 13th (Sunday)]

"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson

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 TurnOtherCheek (original poster member #55194) posted at 4:10 AM on Monday, November 14th, 2016

I don't recall signing any contract. WH may have and if that's the case, he can handle it as he wishes. Besides, he's the one who canceled her extra-special, high touch services, not me. I'll just make sure she removes me from the bill so I have no responsibility. There is not a chance in hell I will settle a bill with her, I don't care if she drags me through court for 35 fucking dollars! I'd pay my attorney 100x that to keep me from having to do that. I'll even make sure it's in the divorce settlement - he has total responsibility for that bill. And no, I could not care less if it means he may have to contact her. Could not care less!

Me: BW x 2 - 53
Ist XWH: Married over 17 years, DD and DS (mine)
2nd XH: Also 53, DS (his), 8 yrs together
OW: Pet sitter
D-Day: 9/11/16
Divorced in 60 seconds flat. http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=591733

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catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 4:22 AM on Monday, November 14th, 2016

She's just trying to get attention. While I realize it's infuriating, it's also completely immature and laughable.

And yes I understand how clearly this shows your STBSWH's poor judgement. But really, how many good, honorable people would chase after a married man? Too bad WSs don't stop to question why they are so flattered by being pursued by a person of such low moral character. In reality they should be insulted (i.e., What is it about me that makes you think I would be interested?).

Deep, yoga breathes. Don't give her the satisfaction of even being aggravated.

[This message edited by catlover50 at 10:24 PM, November 13th (Sunday)]

Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled

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mharris ( member #46683) posted at 11:26 AM on Monday, November 14th, 2016

I would send her the check, but I would wipe my ass with it before sending it.

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